We have a loving relationship but unfortunately as soon as my partner gets excited he ejaculates and he feels so disappointed, it spoils what should be a lovely moment. Its a vicious circle, the more he tries to relax the more tense we both end up. I try to be loving and supportive but i also need fullfillment.
2007-01-21 03:21:31 · 25 answers · asked by greeneyes 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
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2007-01-21 03:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ammo C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-31 13:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could try oral stimulation with your partner first.
Then wait a couple hours and then make love.
This is known to work wonders in men who ejaculate prematurely. They usually perform much better after the initial ejaculation. 2-3 hours later he should have all the stamina you require. Good Luck.
2007-01-21 03:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THis is a very common problem among men of all ages. Look up Keigel exercises on the internet for help and information. It used to happen to me when I was younger, but as I've got older I've been able to control my ejaculation much more effectively. The important thing is to be supportive and sympathetic when it happens - premature ejaculation can be very damaging to a man's self-esteem. Good luck to both of you.
2007-01-21 03:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do it more often, twice a day if necessary. That will remove his "urgency" and make it possible for him to postpone ejaculation much longer for the benefit and enjoyment of both of you. Try giving him a hand job or oral sex and let him ejaculate. Then wait about an hour and go at it all again. He'll take longer.
For even greater delay, go for a third round later in the day or evening. He won't have near as much semen to ejaculate, but he will last as long as you want. As they say, "The third times the charm." That's where the expression came from originally.
2007-01-21 03:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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To learn ejaculatory control:
* Don't use drugs or alcohol. They're distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the "relaxation" involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It's the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
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2007-01-21 05:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he ejaculate prematurely the second time? If not get him off then make love the second time to him. There are medications that can deaden his reactions so he can have sex with you also see a urologist
2007-01-21 03:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is help available. Mainly, thre are specific tyoes of things that you and your partner can do together to help him to learn better control. And as an absolute last resort, there re meds that can help,
The link below has lots of other links, and you should find more than a few answers there.
2007-01-21 03:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys have PE - it's partly a sign of our hectic lifestyle. No big deal - masturbate before hand or get her to make him c*m then go for it OR have a quickie, fool around some more and go again, and look at the second time as the 'REAL' nookie. Look for solutions not problems - together. Good luck.
2016-05-24 05:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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They also has the link to good web site for this problem.
2007-01-22 18:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Afriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-27 23:46:46 · answer #11 · answered by wanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋