i seem to have a problem with staying home, it makes me feel lonely and sad. Also, sometimes when i go out, i dont feel like going out, so i'm stuck between the two. whats wrong with me?
2007-01-21 03:17:11 · 3 answers · asked by big e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The same was going with me... The matter in only about you... you feel so... You cannot going out of you... Try to pay more attention to your friends then to yourself... Not easy... I know... But that is the way out of you... Good luck
2007-01-21 04:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not happy at home and not happy out of the house. There are several ways of looking at this.
You need to get comfortable with yourself. You need to learn more about what makes you tick.
Some people are go, go, go type personalities...hyper and ultra social activity addicts. That doesn't sound like you....since you have an uncomfortable feeling.
Is your home environment cozy for you? Sometimes clutter or outdated surroundings can bring you down. Take a little time and see if making a home nest might help. Hang a piece of artwork. Put all your music, books, computer and video in the same location with a cozy chair and good lighting. Stock your refrigerator. Take up a hobby on your kitchen table.
Going out might make you feel like you are really "living" it up or "partying"....or part of something worth-while....only to be bored or disappointed. Change playpens and playmates.
Go to the library and join a book club...meet new people....take a class....do volunteer work.
Having a good reason to go out....an exciting reason for an adventure. Be a pioneer. Drive to adjoining town and investigate what it has to offer. Museums, cultural events, new restaurants.
Learn more about yourself. Become your own best friend. Pamper yourself whether you are at home or away. Some folks are on the go as a way of avoiding themselves or something uncomfortable in their life. Rediscover yourself.
Fix what is wrong at home, outside of home or inside your head.
Good Luck!
CF
2007-01-21 11:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your mood. Soemtimes you just wanna stay home and chill out. And other times you wanna party for hours. Its called being human.
2007-01-21 12:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋