Hi people,
i'm attached to my guy for nearly 2 yrs, and have always been loyal but ever since i worked in this company (it's industrial attachment program for school) 6mths back, i like this cancer guy. okay, i know there's no future for us but i can't help not to try to get close to him. about 1 or 2 mths back, we advanced to kissing and hugging, and i told him the guilt of betraying my bf was so overwhelming.
however about few wks back, he started ignoring me, he refused to help me in my work (he's a foreign worker so it's his job to assist me in carrying things), and said that i'm acting. i felt really hurt..
do cancerians use silence and nasty words to show that they are hurt? if so, then what am i supposed to do to make him feel better? it hurts me to see him like that. i haven talk to him since he ignored me bcos the thought of talking to him makes me tremble and sudden increase of heartbeat rate.i want to make things clear cos im leaving soon. someone pls advise me!!
2007-01-21 03:12:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
PS: i'm asking for horoscope advices because after reading a little about cancerians, i feel that his behaviours are very much like what i've read. but i just don't know what ails his emotional wound.
2007-01-21 03:37:58 · update #1
Don't take any notice of star signs. I think things will work out much better that way.
2007-01-21 03:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice to read of your _almost_ loyalty to your 2 year bf. I hope he doesn't read Y-Answers!
If you _know_ somewhat what Cancerians are like then you ought to be completely aware of the knife you stuck in him by allowing things to get to the "kissing" stage and then backing up.
_You're_ hurt. . . how about this poor chump whose heart you broke??? His harsh words and silence told you he was really bummed out.
While you still have to work with him, just keep everything business-like and don't come on sweety-sweety. I'm sure he's in an uncomfortable position around you anyway. There's nothing you can say anymore to make him feel better so just get over your hurt. You make it sound that you have no control of your own emotions. What a lot of claptrap that is.
Forget this guy, forget your guilt, but by all means REMEMBER who's your honey the next time you're even tempted.
Before you leave, jot off a very short but sensitive note to the Cancerian, apologize again and wish him well. Leave it with one of his trusted co-workers as you go. That way you'll have effected some kind of closure for both of you.
2007-01-28 20:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by MJ D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is obviously hurt and you should be more careful with peoples feelings. Why would you lead someone on if you had no intentions of being with them. How very unfair and cruel. You SHOULD feel bad and you can make him feel better by leaving him alone and letting him move on.
As a side note you really should re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend and figure out what you're not getting from him that caused you to look elsewhere.
2007-01-21 12:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by dovey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no idea bout matching.
im an aquarian and having a cancer man.
sensitive and organize,i didnt like it at all.
slow mover and he want to be with me most of the time which i hate.
2007-01-26 00:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by oo00dawn00oo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancer men are weird... They bottled their feelings until it explode..They are just moody men.. You never know when is a good time to say hello.. They only talk to you if they feel like it... He sounds immature and being a big crybaby... Yeah, cancer men are oversensitive like girls almost...
2007-01-21 12:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by ChanelGirl83 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt bother with all that stuff!!
2007-01-21 11:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋