it's like I don't trust them
how can I correct this problem?
2007-01-21 02:25:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well actually the reason I asked this question was to help me find a way to believe in God
hahhahaha that was my intention all a long I want to believe but people on Y answers kept telling me that I should just not believe that is way I came up with this briliant idea to get my answer
2007-01-21 02:43:04 · update #1
so I think I don't trust God because he has let me down time and time again
2007-01-21 02:43:59 · update #2
Have them stop lying to you.
2007-01-21 02:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is my philosophy it might help. There is no God only what I call 'the Earths Balance' which other people may know as 'Karma', 'Yin and Yan', 'Mother Nature' etc When I die my body will go back to the earth but my being will be absorbed into 'the Earths Balance' and maybe I will linger on in my children. I'm not trying to push my beliefs onto you but rather inform you that there are options and God is not the be all and end all of everything even though it says so in the Bible. I bet you'll have trouble believing that one. You should go with something that makes the most sense to you, the one you can believe in whole-heartedly. Go away from propaganda for a while and then follow your instinct. Good luck!!
2007-01-29 07:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by kim c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to ask you a question How did God let you done? If you do not mind answering. I think you do not trust someone else that has let you done again and again just hang in there it will work out try talking to someone about your feeling a friend , maybe me I could help you I had a lot of anger with God when Both my parents died from cancer 5 months apart that was a hard time to get over I am still working on it Good Luck
2007-01-29 07:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by Gina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great solution to your problem, ask a world full of strangers to be honest with you. Trust me, I wouldn't lead you astray. I have a one owner car driven by my poor old mum to church on Sundays I will let you have it for just $30,000. I'm practically giving it away I know. Just send the cheque and I will get the car to you as soon as the money is in my account. Now that wasn't so hard was it
2007-01-27 18:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. It's hard to get past it, and I think it usually happens because people we trusted betrayed or lied to us in some way. To get past it, I think you just have to listen to everything, and tentatively believe it....but watch out for signs that it isn't correct. You learn who you can believe in. Trust, to me, is earned, not given. Good luck with this.
2007-01-21 10:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was probably a time in your past when you had total trust in someone and that someone stabbed you in the back. What you have to remember is that each person is different, just because one person cannot be trusted, you cannnot blame all of us. I know from experience.
2007-01-21 10:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by garyr32000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times in our life when we doubt lots of things and one of the first things we do, is fear that God is no longer there.
God is always there. You first must believe in God as the one that sent his Son to the Cross to die for every sinful man in this world, and then you must believe that he did this for you as well.
You must learn to have the faith in God, that he is always there to tale care of us no matter what happens in our lives.
Let me tell you of a personal experience and this may help you.
I worked a 2nd shift job taking care of children and got off work at
12:30 am every night. On one particular night, I was driving down the street and here comes a car head on in front of me, I swerved to the left of the road to miss getting hit and possibly losing my life. I feel that this was a message from God, telling me that he is still in control and as long as we have the faith and belief that he will take care of us, he will. He allowed me to live through this.
I would tell you that you should find you a good church that preaches the true gospel of the message of the Heavenly Father and seek information from the pastor of the church and let him direct you in the path that you are looking for. In order for you to believe, you must have the faith. I hope this helps and I hope that you will come to knoe the truth before it is eternally too late.
2007-01-27 13:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say how to correct this problem.
A lot fo times past actions make it difficult to trust new people. It took me a hell of a time to trust boys again.
But it just takes time. If they're asking you to trust them, and they trust you, just let go a little at a time.
2007-01-21 10:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night a man had a dream,
He dreamed he was walking along
the beach with the LORD.
Across the sky flashed
scenes from his life.
For each scene he noticed
two sets of footprints in the sand,
One belonging to him and
the other to the LORD.
When the last scene flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.
He notice many times in his life there was
only one set of footprints.
He also noticed that it happened to be at
the very lowest and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him and
he questioned the LORD about it.
"LORD, you said once I decided to follow You,
You'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most
troublesome times in my life,
there is only ONE set of footprints.
I don't understand why
when I needed You the most
You would leave me."
The LORD replied:
"My son, my precious child,
I love you and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering,
When you see only one set of footprints,
It was then that I carried you."
2007-01-29 07:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by BLUE BUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God never lets us down, we let ourselves down by the choices we make. God never leaves us. He is our light and our guide, we only have to follow. Ask God to help you trust in him and then in others, but ask for wisdom and discernment to know who can be trusted.
Sometimes something in our past causes us to mistrust people. That is also something to put in God's hands. Ask Jesus into your heart and ask him to help you and lead you through each day and every step you take. Ask him to help you overcome anything that happened to you to make you mistrust others.
I always believe that people should be trusted until they give you reason not to trust them. Then, they need to earn back my trust in them, and that takes a long time. But I always put all my trust in God.
Try Jesus, he will never let you down!
2007-01-28 19:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by coolkatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow think smart dude. u need to know how to believe.
u (BELIEVE) don't believe anything. i think u get it soon. by the way the word GOD means creation. example TIME create things. and if theres no TIME everything doesn't exist. if you god is human like jesus or christ, u totally have a brainless. so just see things that things really are.
2007-01-27 15:21:05 · answer #11 · answered by chajen v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋