Whenever my partner and I attempt to have sex, he seems to have great difficuly finding my hole and inserting his penis. I have tried to help guide it in with my hands, but every time it gets close to being inserted, it slips the other way. This has become a huge problem for us and completely ruins the mood... any suggestions would be of great appreciation!
2007-01-21 02:18:25 · 9 answers · asked by sportylover44 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Turn over. That's got to be the easiest way to get the job done :) and it allows for deeper penetration too (doggy style). Another good option is woman on top, it puts you in control -- just be careful cuz if you miss yeow! The pillow tip under your behind is an absolute necessity if you are going traditional. I don't know about 2 though. Play with it and see what works for you.
Experimenting with positions will help a lot and is fun, too.
2007-01-21 02:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by laurie888 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lubrication can help, also, play a little, for isntance you can lie on your back and open your legs, and he can aim holding it in his hand, inserting and removing, and repeating this slowly. Also avoid doing it in too much darkness, have a low light going on so he can't miss you. You can also change positions and do this inserting and removing slow thing. You will get better at it pretty soon.
2007-01-21 02:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by LumiereLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha , Ha this is cute...
Your bodies r not compatible that's all. Read the Kama Sutra and you will understand what I mean...
Always have sex on pillows 2 at least. This position lifts you up so that your opening is in the right spot. I am assuming that his penis is small or thin?? That's why this happens...have him drink whole milk , you will see how fat it gets within a week!!
thank me now, thank me later u choose!
2007-01-21 02:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't rely on him to find it. you've got the right idea with "guiding" him... just take it one step further... do it yourself. don't just guide it, stick it in there! (scoot your butt a little if you need to get adjusted comfortably.) he'll probably appreciate it. it'll take the pressure and embarassment off of him so you can get on with business. enjoy!
2007-01-21 02:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Emily H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An anatomy lesson, for both of you.
Check the following link:
2007-01-21 02:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS HAPPENS A LOT WHEN THE MALE HAS "BLOND HAIR" IT WILL CAUSE BRUISE'S ON THE BELLY, CHEEKS, FOREHEAD ALSO
2007-01-21 02:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he don't mind you can take the wheel.
2007-01-21 05:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of lubrication ON YOU and make sure HE is properly erect before attempting to get down and dirty!
2007-01-21 02:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sparky5115 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lube the opening so it will slide in easier.
2007-01-21 02:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Clinternet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
must be a shortty
2007-01-21 03:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋