I have a friend of 8 months and just found out he is married and he didnt tell me. He says he just never thought of telling me. I was born both genders but raised male even though I am more female. He knows all about this. He is a personal trainer and very much into me getting in great shape. I asked him once who he lives with and he said another male trainer BUT did not mention a wife. He is all smiles around me and has said he is thankful for me. He met his wife 4 yrs ago and dated for 1 year before getting married. My friend knows how I feel about him. He did this skit where he wore a pink tutu and danced infront of a lot of people then sent me a pic of it. Is my friend falling in love with me? Does he sound gay and living behind a marriage? Why didnt he tell me he is married?
2007-01-21 01:56:21 · 9 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I should also say I think my friend married because he is bi/gay and thought it would make him straight. I think he is realizing his interest in me. I should also tell you others at the club did not know he is married either.
2007-01-21 02:13:33 · update #1
to quote jimi hendrix...
"is this love, or is this confusion..."
2007-01-21 02:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sopwith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well come on now...how good of a friend is he really if you have never been to his home or he didnt tell you about his wife. It sounds more like an aquantance to me, and it is possible he's bisexual and confused, but he is married, and now that you know that you should respect it.
So now, what do you mean by " I was born both genders but raised male even though I am more female" ????
2007-01-21 02:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sense you already know the answer. He didn't tell you because he wanted you to think of him as "available". That alone should make you wary of him. It sounds like a risky situation. You may want to reconsider your friendship with him. Either way, it would be a huge error in judgement to become intimately involved with this guy. Good luck.
2007-01-21 02:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is very complex, either he keeps personal life personal or knowing everything he knows about you maybe does find you attractive. Have you asked him about it. If it is this confusing for you maybe you need to find another trainer. Without you actually speaking you will not know what is going on. You need to diffrentiate what you think is going on and what is actually going on
2007-01-21 02:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and get away from him. He is married. He needs to get his own life in order and clean up his own mess before he makes a mess of someone elses life.
2007-01-21 02:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by lynda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he is a personal trainer...and is probably hot, and enjoys playing headgames....or maybe he just wants a piece of that *** or poonanny. holla! good luck. if things get way more complicated...i'd switch gyms...
2007-01-21 02:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by aml 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he is trying to get you to fall in love with him so you will have immoral sex with him. He is MARRIED. Leave him alone!
2007-01-21 02:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is too complicated, now that you no that he is married, i would leave it alone. remeber that three is a crowd.
2007-01-21 02:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Carolyn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH?
2007-01-21 01:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋