We are in love, we live together..but kinda broken up..or just given each other a silent treatment..it first started with I don’t want to be the one breaking the silent treatmetn let him do it and he did the same it been 5 weeks..we live together and no words..not even a cough .. So for his birth day I want to give him a gift and say happy birth day
okay he was watching sports and I surprised him with a kiss and than later he comes to the kitchen and kisses me back..but still in silent treatment..I am not a very talkative person but I think he likes that way
So for his birth day I want to give him a gift and tell him happy birth day any ideas on what i should give him?
2007-01-21 01:56:02 · 6 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
he is 26 and I am 22 I know the silent treatment is silly and I am going to break it off and say happy birth day
2007-01-21 02:04:06 · update #1
I can't imagine 5 weeks of being ignored being OK to one person, and certainly not to both people in a relationship. Maybe you guys are a perfect match because if either of you did that to someone else, that other person won't feel like giving or receiving a birthday gift from the other person, so that's really nice that you still want to give him a gift.
2007-01-21 02:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys by chance German? My grandfather could go for weeks without saying a single word when he was angry.
What a way to live, either get over it or move on. Of course you will still have to deal with people who disagree with you and that isn't a real strong point for either one of you.
If you stay this angry, this long, you should move to the middle east you'll fit in fine there.
2007-01-21 02:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lt. Dan reborn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the challenge is you want him more advantageous than he needs you. because of this he has no reason to augment the relationship. He is conscious you aren't any further going everywhere. both get used to how he deals with minor conflicts or locate someone who really cares about you.
2016-12-02 20:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by barnas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste money on someone you're not gonna be with? Maybe his favorite dinner, that way it's not a total waste for you. You get to eat too.
2007-01-21 02:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An appointment for counselling for the two of you together, because you need it, or you won't be that way much longer!
2007-01-21 02:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some funny boxers.
2007-01-21 02:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋