I have a problem. I am a 35 years old bachelor. In my mind I feel that I am a female entrapped in a male body. As a very young boy I grew up with some girls who were our neighbours. When I was a small boy I used to wear the girl's frock also because the girl used to tell me to wear it. Now some of the girls are married. Few of the girls just say "Hi" to me and they disappear. I feel extremely uncomfortable in the company of men. At the same time no girl is talking with me. I want to talk with some girl who will understand me. It has been futile till now. I don't know whom to talk to about this matter.
2007-01-21 01:54:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are plenty of women in this world who would like a man likle you and will talk with you.
2007-01-21 04:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek professional counseling to sort out your own attitudes and feelings. Since you are in a male body, the other guys will likely ignore you. However, there is something involved in your relationship to women that is not working correctly. I'll bet it's not limited to just the women who were your former neighbors.
Your situation if much too complex to work through on Yahoo answers (as well as more public than it needs to be).
2007-01-21 02:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT presume that your behavior is inate because it isn't. This is behavior you CHOOSE to embrace. Get someone to talk to about this. Get some support and find out how to relate to others without revealing such intimate details to total strangers. So what if you want to frolic around in women's clothes?? Why does this have to be such a huge deal?
2007-01-21 02:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is you are not a girl.You have to kill this feeling inside you.The best way of doing this is to try and have a girl friend.This will help you to overcome that feeling.Because she will be the only one to understand you.OR ELSE go get fucked by a gay
2007-01-21 02:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by bdell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy it's gonna be difficult for you in india and even more difficult if you are HOMOSEXUAL.if you are not then marry a girl and be freinds with her only and also choose a girlish bussinness too,, otherwise don't spoil some innocent girl's life.
if people make fun of you or don't except you as such then be my freind,, remember BOBBY DARLING take her for example
talk to me{ chimpu_eat_alu@yahoo.co.in} PLEASE
2007-01-21 04:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by alpenliebe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could use some therapy to over come those childhood confusions.but you don't need anythingdrastic like a sex change operation or anything.just someone to understand you and maybe some professional help.
2007-01-21 02:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by The Doc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just feel your self as a young boy because perhaps you dont know that the girls are ,not all,but mostaly are interested to make a boy freind instead of a girl frelnd.i think you are very lucky , l want to meet you as soon as possible..............................
2007-01-21 02:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by rajeshgunnu23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of girls out there who will talk with you.
look online for groups of people like yourself.
2007-01-21 01:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First talk to your father or elder one, then other family member if possible. at last visit the expert.
2007-01-21 03:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Did you know the devil came to steal, kill and destroy, but Jesus came to give life, and life more abundently.....Jesus loves you and wants to help you, all you have to do is invite Him into your heart and He will lead your life.....God bless ya
2007-01-21 02:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋