had a 1 nite stand, got pregnant and r married?
2007-01-21 01:52:14 · 13 answers · asked by Joy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think u got a tough road ahead of u. Not sure u r taking casual sex casually or just a moment of impulse. If u r the casual type then I think yr problems may not end here. But if this is done on impulse then it would be a very good lesson for u. Learning to upkeep a lady chastity is what make a woman beautiful and a man to love for forever.
Can't really tell u exactlt what to do, but if I will u, I will tell him the truth and see how things happen and ready to accept whatever happen! I always believe that if u cheat or lied, the guilty feeling will haunt u for as long as u live and definitely a very stressful burden to carry.
If yr husband really loves u he probably will make effort to accept u but be inform that the process will not be easy. On the other hand, if things turn bad the only way to accept it is to face all the consequences.
This way though u may lose yr family but on the brighter side u may live to be a better person. The saying goes if ones do not go thru mistakes, one will never live more meanful.
Be brave and face the situation, is only a stop along yr path of life. Everything will be fine! Let nature takes it course! Take care.
2007-01-21 03:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the baby belongs to the 1 night stand then you better tell your husband because you will not be able to keep that secret forever,I mean that would be hard to do you cant keep things from the people you are with and if you do than YOU better be sure you can live with it,because bottom line you made the choice now you have to live with it,and your husband may forgive you or he may not but you need to give him that choice because apparently you have already made your choices !!!!!
2007-01-21 02:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would for sure come clean as down the road if that child ever needs medical treatment that would need the assistance of the biological father you will be in a fine fix not to mention the innocent child.
2007-01-21 03:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with my husband and tell him what happened and ask him to forgive me and I would not abort the baby... If your husband cannot live with the mistake you have made then seperate and have the baby and move on with your life. I wish you the best and I am here if you need to talk.
2007-01-21 02:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my husband that the baby may not be his......u have to be honest now! i wouldnt want to raise someone elses kid, dont do that to ur husband.....u cheated pay the consquences now rather then later cause it will come out sooner or later
maybe u need to go to maury
2007-01-21 02:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOW is the best time to start being truthful to your husband. As painful as you think it might be, the stress can't be good for the unborn baby. And for you. Be strong and for once...do the right thing.
2007-01-21 02:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm....well well well...all the best for u 2...actually people get together cox of FATE!!!!....since god let you 2 to know each other in this way, have a baby, and let u 2 marry...its heaven's will
2007-01-21 02:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish you the best, I don't think this can come out good! You played with fire and you have been burned.
2007-01-21 02:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell my husband and start packing my things.
2007-01-21 02:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't get married.. :D
2007-01-21 01:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋