Well my ex bf broke up with me about nearly a month ago now. I do still really miss him. We did this mutually saying we should give each other freedom to experience new things. But we promised to stay friends as we've always been together everywhere. Things were good between us. And although the break was mutual, its killing me more. I want him so badly. The first two weeks were hell. He often asks me out for a movie, dinner, shopp. and i just agreed. Knowing how much pain it will cause when the day ends. It sucks to go out as friends. But its getting better, im feeling better, i dont know if im self decluding myself or wad but i hope im feeling good now. I still like him alot and he knows it, but he wants me to get over him soon. He doesnt like to see me cry but helps in consoling me. I wonder wad on his mind all the time. I wonder if he misses me. Today was really bad. I kept crying and crying non stop, nothing triggered it. Im just very sad. And misses him badly. what should i do
2007-01-21 01:49:41 · 9 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we're still young . we're both 19.
2007-01-21 01:50:31 · update #1
you should get him some thing extraordenary
2007-01-21 01:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by henrique w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with you, personally I wouldn't like it if my friends started hanging out with my ex bf. If you respect her and value your friendship than you shouldn't have even STARTED to form a friendship with out of all people ... her ex bf. Its girl code. I have strong values when it comes to things like that. I had a friend go after an ex bf of mine a while ago (6 yrs ago), since then I no longer put up with stupidity from my friends. If you care about her, drop the dude.
2016-03-29 07:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should do things without him for awhile, learn to have a life without him. As time passes you will recover, but having him around too much is not helping, what will you do if he introduces someone else into the situation? Sorry to say but this is a fact of life in relationships.
2007-01-21 01:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the exact same, i know you feel alone without him and alive with him but you must tone down seeing him. for a while you`ll feel terrible but believe me in a few months you`ll be up on your feet. if you want him back try to ignore him and try to go out as much as possible, make him believe you don`t need him that much even if you feel you do. and finally go with someone else!! jealousy is the biggest emotion that should make him realise what he`s giving away.
all the best.
2007-01-21 03:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by kristian f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a relationship based on friendship is a good one. I think you guys still have a chance. The friendship will only make things stronger. Trust me he will soon realize how much he really misses you. Good luck.
2007-01-21 02:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough break, huh? why don't you ask him that you want him back? if he asks you to go out, don't nod. it'll make you feel awful. i've experienced this many times before, and, yes, it's like hell..he knows that you still like him and he didn't ask you to get together again? what a guy!! know what?? find a better guy. da one that will make you forget about him.
2007-01-21 01:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i went through the same thing for 2 whole years!
but my advice would be to fallow along to his atempt to friendship this could be really good cuz over time friendship turns into love.
but promis me that you wont do anything to your self like cutting
because trust me iv been through it!
i started cutting
i became anorexic
i got deppressed
and it wasnt good
2007-01-21 01:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by urluvmakesmeweak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend broke up with me months ago and yesterday i could not stop thinking about him, i didn't cry but it was depressing. it happened for no reason, just like you said it happened to you. and i used to work with him after we broke up, and we were talking and stuff but it wasn't the same. eventually i realized that it wasn't going to go well and i just quit. i haven't seen him since and i am glad because i am very very angry at him now. the blame needs to go where it belongs(he left me for his ex) and i'm not going to wait for him to come back to me when his life falls apart.
2007-01-21 02:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him loose..
Move on..
Find someone else..
2007-01-21 02:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋