2007-01-21 01:44:52 · 28 answers · asked by Matthew S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you can afford it...
2007-01-21 01:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Matthew, since you don't give any details it's hard to say, but usually if you talk to your wife you can work through anything. If you are willing to call it quits, why not talk to your wife straight out and let her know what the problem is. If you are scared of rejection, embarrassment or an argument look at it this way this would be the last time you would talk to her so what do you have to loose? Good Luck with your decision! Hope you can work things out.
2007-01-21 10:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on allot of factors. One I would sit down write on a piece of paper everything you want to change in the marriage. Second write everything you like and cant live without. Third read the list and then sit down with your wife and start the discussion and try hard to compromise. Forth if all else fails then pick a place go there for a weekend with your wife and try to remember the good things like when and how you two first met.
2007-01-21 09:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should I get out of bed today?...yes, if you want to get anything done...no, your off work it's a Sunday
Should I fix coffee this morning?...yes, if your the only one there and you want it...no, not if you don't like it
Should I wear the blue shirt today?...yes, if it's your favorite and it's clean...no, if it's dirty or too small for you
Should I visit my Mom today?...yes, if you haven't seen her in a while and she's expecting you...no, if your only there to get money or food from her
Should you get divorced?...yes, if you fight, cheat, abuse each other or just don't love one another...no, some things in this world are worth working on, marriage should be a priority
2007-01-21 09:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are at the point where you are looking for someone else to be with, then you should get divorced instead of going out on her. it's much better to be apart than tear each other apart.
2007-01-21 09:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by gypsywitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're even asking the question, your answer is probably 'yes'. Go into a quiet room by yourself and speak outloud. Tell the other person you don't want to be with them anymore and you're ready to move on with your life. Does it feel like a weight has been lifted? If so, you've gotta go.
2007-01-21 09:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jen H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how bad things are going... if it's really bad then get divorced!
2007-01-21 09:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by lulu101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have'nt given any information.It all depends on the circumstances and reasoning.With this kind of a question you probably should not have gotten married in the first place your very immature.
2007-01-21 09:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
2007-01-21 09:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you havent given any explanations or background so any answer wouldnt help you either way....
However if you're thinkin bout it obviously theres a prob..why dont you share it so we can help?
Good Luck!
Ciao
2007-01-21 09:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Jia K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question, I bet noone has been silly enough to get married to you in the first place...sorry, but true...rediculous !!!
2007-01-21 09:49:23 · answer #11 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋