What should I do when my friend is sad ? How can I console her/him? Are there any difference between consoling a boy and consoling a girl ???
2007-01-21 01:39:36 · 5 answers · asked by BÃch Ngá» 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just be there... listen... and provide a shoulder...
2007-01-21 01:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for them.. listen. I think the difference between men and women is that the men have a harder time talking about their feelings than women do. So your guy friend may need you to help talk the feelings out, while the girl is more apt to talk about them while you just listen.
2007-01-21 01:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by jzgermany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out the reason for sadness but shouldnot appears to do nosing. IF he/she wants to talk listen without appears to crticise or commenting ,just be there. A girl may want to talk about her problams be a good listener. A boy might not want to share his problam so dont nagg to much but let him know that u r there if he needs ur shoulder.
2007-01-21 01:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by zoya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People need people who listen. That isn't a boy thing or a girl thing. All you can do is sit there and listen. Don't pry. Sometimes the betteer part of having a friend there is knowing that you don't have to talk if you don't want to.
2007-01-21 01:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mature Witch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends souley on the person. What are you comforting them for? If it is something personal like a family memeber dying then just say you are here for them if they feel like talking. If its something not so serious then just bring them to do something they enjoy.
2007-01-21 01:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋