heyyy so ok, i have a major problem. i had sex the other day with my boyfriend... we didnt use a condom because he said he can control himself from coming. it was only for like 3 minutes and i said that we needed to stop and we did. i am scared now because i had my period on the 23 of december and its the 21 of january!! i am really scared and dont know what to do!!
2007-01-21 01:31:13 · 12 answers · asked by littlexgirl325 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
LOL So it still works to tell a girl you dont need a condom because you can control yourself...Sperm IS present before the big finish. You very likely are pregnant
2007-01-24 18:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Chad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, NEVER TRUST A MAN! He can MAYBE control himself from ejactulating inside you, but he can't control what is known as precum, which leaks during relations. ALWAYS MAKE HIM WEAR A CONDOM... if he has an STD, he cannot control the fact that you may contract it. If he didn't come in you.. you may be worried for nothing, but not out of the clear. When my husband and I were dating, we used the "pull out method" I was very young, and didn't know much about precum... I now have a daughter that will turn 7 in a few days. We also have two other children now and a baby on the way... but just to let you know.. if you want to be safe from pregnancy and STD's, it would be best if you took birth control and made him wear a condom, pulling out or controlling himself doesn't work. Take a test and see what it says.. you may just be stressed out thinking that you may be pregnant... that will sometimes delay your period. I hope this helps.. good luck baby girl.. and please be more careful.
2007-01-21 09:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys say a lot of things to get out of wearing a condom. truth is with all the diseases and pregancy issues its not safe to not wear a condom. you shouldnt let your boyfriend talk you into things that your not comfortable doing. if he really cares he will do as you ask. stress can cause you to be late on your period. if you are that worried about it go get a pregnancy test at the store. if you don't want to do that just try not to worry and wait til the 1st of feb. if you still haven't started your period either get a at home pregnacy test or go to the doctor. if you don't want to tell your parents right away about this you can go to the store yourself go to a public restroom and take the test there. then if you are pregnant then tell your parents.
2007-01-21 09:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by lady_arionna_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test now.
Can I get pregnant from pre-***?
Yes, it is possible to get pregnant from pre-*** (a slang word for the
drops of pre-ejaculatory secretions that come out of the penis in
response to sexual stimulation) as this may contain sperms remaining
in the ducts following a previous ejaculation.
However, for pregnancy to occur in such a situation, both the man and women should be highly fertile and the exposure of that fluid to the female genitalia should occur close to the ovulation day. You may wish to know that there are recorded cases of women who became pregnant this way.
If you have had a sexual encounter which you suspect could lead to pregnancy, get tested as soon after 7 days from the ovulation day, as possible. There are sensitive test kits such as those based on ELISA principle, which can detect pregnancy at least a week before your period is
due. And if you miss a period get tested within the next week itself.
http://www.sexualcounselling.com/Pregconcern.htm
2007-01-21 09:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Probably not pregnant, you could be on a 30 day cycle! The other day as you said is when you had sex, you would have not been ovulating, but I guess anything is a possibility! Go buy a test to clear your mind!!!!!!!! If the other day as you referred was a week and a half to two weeks ago, yes you could be pregnant! Never use that method for bc!!!! It is 50 50 and will sooner or later get you pg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-21 09:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by whoa,3boys! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try two or three home prego tests. And if you are prego well you got three choices, abortion, adoption, or keep it. All of those choices are yours and don't let nobody to tell you what is right or wrong, the choice is yours. Next time use condoms nomatter what before you are a babies mamma on welfare.
2007-01-21 09:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hasnt even been a month. Anytime you have sex you take the chance of getting pregnant. Also no guy can control himself. You can get pregnant by precum as well.
2007-01-21 09:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give yourself peace of mind, so take a pregnancy test so that it can be eliminated if your not....or you could just be very late, but take the test.
2007-01-21 09:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man doesnt have to ejaculate to make you pregnant. i would have a pregnancy test to make sure. then if you are pregnant, then start planning ahead because your in for a rough ride.
2007-01-21 09:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Robfev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlikely cuz it was just right b4 ur missd period .. go to mymonthlycycles.com to get more info when to concieve and not to have intercourse. hope this helps u. or go to ovulation.com
2007-01-21 09:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_love45648 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋