I have a friend and everyone thinks he likes me but I don't feel that way about him. I am friends with his best friend, his sisters and him but everyone keeps asking us if we are going out. He waits for me to go to my locker and when I go to my locker he waits for me to go to my seventh period. I am so confused. My friend also has a gf but they never show any affection and when we are a group of friends he just keeps looking at me. I need a bunch of help because I am just so puzzeled. When I told him I went out with this guy, he just was giving me a hard time and kept calling me and saying "Why would you do that??" and stuff like that. I don't understand, he shouldn't be in control of my dating life. He knows all my classes and has them memorized and I don't know how that is. I guess he talks to people I know. It is extremely weird. Please help me. No sexual or perverted comments.
2007-01-21 01:16:20 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have been in similar situations, and if you ask him anything, it will just cause friction and "weirdness" between all of you and it will be hard to go back to the way things used to be.
My advice to you, would be to just let things go if you are not interested in him. Things will blow over, he will see someone else that interests him, and then things will go back to they way they used to be. I wouldn't even think about it, and give it a few weeks. Ignore all the questions or laugh them off. He will soon have another crush and all will be well.
2007-01-21 01:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by luvmelodio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow he seems a little obsessed with you, will if you don't like him then try and let him down gently since he is your friend and all but if he can't get it through his head then you gotta be mean about so he will understand but be mean in a good way that wouldn't hinder your friend hip, just enough to let him know your not intrested IF your not, or maybe set some rules or guidelines so he understands what he shouldn't do. If you are intrested in him then still set some rules or guidelines so he will give you some space in the realtionship and not be so clingy. Hope that help you a little.
2007-01-21 01:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by nowtheendbegins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poor guy has a crush on you and can't tell you. Actually he is telling you by following you around and memorizing your class schedule. Cut him a break and just tell him that while you are flattered, you do not return the his affections and that he needs to get over it. You'll do him a favor as well as yourself.
If that doesn't work, kick him between the legs...
2007-01-21 01:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by onlybitealittle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should ask before judging. he's your friend so u should be able to talk freely. maybe he thinks best when staring at someone and yo good to look at. or he may think its cool walking you to classes or he may not like the guy you went out with. OR he could have a crush on you.
2007-01-21 01:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure what your question is. I mean, do you like him like you think he likes you or are you freaking out because he likes you in a way that you don't like him. you have to be a little more clearer on how you feel about him and also as to what the question is.
2007-01-21 01:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Thumper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
yes you have someone obssessed with you.
I call that stalking.
Carry mace!
If he's nice and harmless... tell him how you feel. And to stop "Stalking You"
If you might like him... give him a chance.
2007-01-21 01:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Gucci 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u like him, then ask him what does he want. maybe is is afariad taht you might get hurt. maybe he just likes u as a freind and nothing else.
ask him before jumping to conclusions
2007-01-21 01:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes You, it's that simple.....if you just want to remain friends, you need to sit down and tell him....don't let this linger on, Ok?....Goodluck
2007-01-21 01:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by justmenothinelse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-21 03:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy© ® ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a bunch of middle school or high school drama....can't help you with that sorry
2007-01-21 01:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mike T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋