Hello pips, pls help me with my concerns about my close friend. Im a gay college student, who has a guy friend. I know that he is straight but Im still dreaming that would become a gay like me, who would open his mind regarding on man-to-man sex. I honestly admit that I like him so much and I wanna sleep with him. I wanna experience intimacy for him and all those gay stuffs, but I guess he wont because he is straight. Is there a chance that he would let me go down on him (literally) ?? How?? How can I convince him to have sex without the aid of alcohol? IHow would I know if he is really a straight or maybe he is just acting to be? Pls help me guys. I really like him very much...
2007-01-21 00:20:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like all you want is sex, not a relationship. You could have that with someone else, without jeopardizing a friendship for some oral sex or "all those gay stuffs."
(What are "gay stuffs, by the way? Oh wait, never mind...)
2007-01-21 01:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by luvmelodio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How close are you? Does he know you are gay? If not, decide if you want him to know (you might lose his friendship if he is not accepting).
-he might be cool with it but declare he is straight
-he might be uncool with it and you lose a friend
-he might be cool with it and say me too!
I have heard of situations where patience was the key, but this only happened because they were truly good friends in college which lead to more (in their case). If he does know you are gay, I would make a subtle (you need to work it in) compliment and see the response; something like "your a good looking guy." Nothing like "I want to open your mind to man-to-man sex."
I am also evil sometimes, if a "straight" friend knows I am gay (well, I don't call anyone my friend unless they know this, especially a "close friend") I would ask him if he thinks another guy walking by is cute. [but the usual response is I don't know or eew... and I continue to do it because their response entertains me:-)]
2007-01-21 01:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous Answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the fantasy a fantasy. Straight guys who want to experiment with gay dudes will usually give the first hint.
2007-01-21 01:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him? Or do you want to be with him forever?
I know it sounds serious but you can't lay the gay card at his feet, have him topple over the edge, and not be there to catch him when he falls.
How about you tell it like it is... That you like him, and you judge by his response if you want to pursue a relationship with him. And if you just want the sex... well, tell him. And he better consent or this may traumatize him forever...
2007-01-21 00:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well said Buck....I dont think you should try to experiement with him. If he knows of your sexuality and was interested he would say so. Or if he is shy he might bring it up in conversation but how often do we talk about sexuality? Anywho, dont ruin a good friendship.
2007-01-21 00:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by DaBestOneEva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he'd let you go down on him as long as you swear to secrecy, I'm sure he'd like it, I here you guys are good at what you do. A man knows what a man likes...lol
2007-01-21 01:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by jusme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a wild idea - ask HIM, instead of a million starngers.
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2007-01-21 00:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by abetterfate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really "like" him then you will have respect for him and not pressure him into anything.If he says he is straight then respect that about him.
2007-01-21 00:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
have your hottest girlfriend get with him and then propose a 3 some...
act like your both gonna do her, get him totally drunk and just go for the junk once she has her muff in his face.maybe he'll be too confused to kick the everlovin crap outta you till the next day
otherwise.... have you ever seen the movie "lockdown" just a thought... because there really is no hope any other way. lol
2007-01-21 00:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by THEMENACE47 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋