Is looking at the bodies of other women the same as cheating with them?
2007-01-21 00:17:24 · 21 answers · asked by Joe Schmoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe it is cheating. You may not be with that woman physically but mentally and emotionally you have given of yourself to someone other than your mate. Hence in essence, you have shared an intimate moment with someone (or images of someone) other than your mate. You cheated in your heart.
2007-01-21 00:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by EmeraldSun 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. I think some women take this a bit too far. There is some that are so insecure in their relationship that a guy who notices a beautiful girl on the streets, on TV, magazines and yes even porn on the net are made to feel it is wrong and are cheating on them...not so, everyone looks, there is nothing wrong with looking...some men take it a step further and flirt or try to contact the woman they look at and yes that is wrong and it is cheating. If it were comparing the person they were with to the porn females, I'd have lost the battle before it began...
2007-01-21 00:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't work, doesn't clean, rarely helps with your child? AND he's attempted to cheat on you?! I think there are bigger problems here than him whacking off to porn. Look, bust him all you like over the porn use. His stuff certainly shouldn't be left where young kids can see it. That's completely irresponsible. It isn't going to change the fact that this guy isn't ready for a mature relationship. Look at his actions. If it was me, his azz would have been bounced some time ago.
2016-05-24 04:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking may not be the same as cheating, but it's like drugs...it leads to other things. I think the person who needs porn to feel sexually alive is a waste of time in any relationship.
2007-01-21 03:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no and no again....only those who have been told this believe it. Yes porn is meant to be erotic and titillating but it is not cheating.
Cheating is a word used way too often these days. Most only think they know what it means but most have no idea. the same goes for adultery; few know the original meaning of the word.
Go ahead enjoy your porn...don't try to hide it from anyone...you will, by statistics grow bored with it before too long. Looking at nude bodies all day long gets as boring as eating the same food all the time.
2007-01-21 00:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
is downloading porn on the internet the same as cheating? -> is robbing someone the same as borrowing money? ask yourself that question first
is looking at the bodies of other women the same as cheating with them? -> is putting a rolled pair of socks in your brief the same as cheating your wife about what is barely there? ask yourself that question first too
2007-01-21 00:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why stare at some stranger, when you could be with your wife? If my husband cheated on me, I would never forgive him. But if I caught him looking at porn, I would let it slide. As long as he doesn't look at it ALL the time or is not addicted to it. Looking is not the same as cheating.
2007-01-21 00:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by I ♥ 2 ♥ U BABY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok here is my opinion. downloading porn off the internet is not at all cheating. but if your partner is not ok with it then you should not do it. one thing that can work in your favor is tell your partner that by looking at this stuff it will spice up our relationship in bed. offer your partner to sit with you and look at the porn, if they are ok with it. but don't be offended when they do it. it has to work both ways. as long as the person is not live right around you naked then no its not cheating.
2007-01-21 00:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by davimich1975 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but what's the next step? It never stops there! Porn always, ALWAYS, destroys marriages! Trouble is porn is more addictive than cocaine. It takes a strong person to stop it. Most have to do it alone, since they don't want anyone to know they are having trouble in that area. Your best bet is to throw out the computer if it's going to destroy your marriage.
2007-01-21 00:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Truthfully i would think this would depend on the woman you are with. Is SHE ok with it? To some women, it might be no big deal, to others it might hurt them, or make them feel insecure. It all depends on the woman you are with. If she does not mind, then go for it, but if it is hurting her, she does not like it ect...then if you like/love her enough, you will stop. To me, its not the same as cheating, however, i do not like it.
2007-01-21 04:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by misty n justin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋