I had this girlfriend for 2 years. i dumped her. Then i wanted her back. then i got her. then i dumped her again. and again. I miss her real badly when im not with her. when i get her, i get bored quickly. How do you cure this thing?
2007-01-20 22:54:02 · 9 answers · asked by wachichornia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and the answer is..........
find one to replace her........
2007-01-20 23:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by rock 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anyone found a cure for "wanting what u cant have" sindrome?
Yes, about 2,500 years ago, it's called Buddhism.
Check it out:
Buddhism, The Four Noble Truths, The Eightfold Path to Enlightenment
http://www.thebigview.com/buddhism/fourtruths.html
2007-01-21 07:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
THERE IS A CURE FOR THAT....ACTING MATURE.
BOYS LIKE YOU IS THE REASON WHY REAL GOOD MEN HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING A GOOD WOMAN. AND WHY DID I CALL YOU A BOY, BECAUSE YOU HAVE NOT FOUND THE MATURITY IN UNDERSTANDING THAT WHAT YOUR DOING IS WRONG. AND EVEN THOUGH YOUR AT THE AGE WHERE MUST MAN HAVE A SCENSE OF WHAT LIFE WITH A WOMAN IS, YOU HAVE NOT GOTTEN THERE YET.
GROW UP AND STOP HURTING WOMAN JUST BECAUSE YOUR BORED. BELIEVE ME THERE WILL BE A WOMAN WHERE SHE WILL HURT YOU IN WAYS YOU CAN NOT EVEN RECOVER AND THEN GET YOU BACK AND DUMP YOU AGAIN JUST BECAUSE SHE IS BORED. AND BELIEVE ME YOU WILL NOT LIKE IT.
THERE IS A NAME FOR MEN LIKE YOU ... ITS CALLED A PLAYER. A PLAYER THAT WILL END UP ALONE AT THE END OF HIS DAYS. SAD SAD LIFE.
2007-01-21 08:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the grass is greener ... but still has to be mowed.
boredom isn't a justifiable reason to break up unless you are in middle school. people are people, growing up is somewhat boring. I wish I could find a boring girl that I loved instead of exciting girls that only want to have fun. Maybe find the reason you are bored, it could be something you need to work on within (your boredom).
I know people who date because they thing 'someone' will make them happy (then they think well if they have this or that ... it never ends), but that is never the case, you must be happy with yourself and single first. Try to not be bored being alone first, then hook up with her and you find exciting things to do. Keep some separate activities. Search inside and see if you really love her. You know no relationship in real life runs perfectly smooth or movie-like, there are going to be ups and downs, busy periods and slow times.
At first I thought you meant someone who is taken or you know is incompatible but you want them anyway.
2007-01-21 07:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by just another guy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's called being and adult and moving on. It's the nature of the beast to want what we don't have, that's normal. But what you're doing to this poor girl is just ridiculous.
Where is her head? I'd love to have a talk with her and school her about men (boys) like you.
Burn me once, shame on you. Burn me twice, shame on me.
2007-01-21 06:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By looking at the other side of the fence and seeing that the grass is greener.
2007-01-21 06:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem is not you, its her. You need to meet your match, (someone who does the same thing to you), and then perhaps you will appreciate this saint. If you can live w/out someone-the're not the one.
2007-01-21 07:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by stardust 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried therapy? Its a wonder your poor girlfriend doesnt need it!!!
2007-01-21 07:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Eve M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You´re GAY!!!!!
2007-01-21 07:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋