I confronted her about it and she admitted and said she was too embarressed to tell me. Is she really a friend for risking my well being to save her image?
2007-01-20 22:50:39 · 20 answers · asked by †ђ!ηK †αηK² 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To clarify; we were strictly friends (no sex) but we did share food, drinks etc with her. I got tested and I’m clean by the way.
2007-01-20 22:58:43 · update #1
She is just a horny infested woman and you should have worn a condom.
2007-01-20 22:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like this friend is a sleep-over-type friend? Hmm?
Well, if you were sleeping with her (or anyone), you already know that there are risks.. some ppl don't know, don't show, and/or don't tell the problems they have going on below.. BEWARE!!
As to the friend thing, I certainly wouldn't trust the girl again. Perhaps you can keep her as just a friend to go places with.. while keeping your clothes (especially the lower ones) ON.
Best of luck, sorry for your disappointment and possible infection (which is not that likely if you were only with her once or twice).. Hope you warn others if you did contract the virus (maybe if you did, you'd understand better how hard it is to tell sex partners about your problems like that)!
2007-01-21 06:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt friendship is involved. You are related only by physical attraction and sexual satisfaction.The real question you raised is are you a friend? As you stated "I confronted ". She came closer to being a friend by admitting failure.
You amended question brings a new answer>She certainly is a friend and deserves great respect for her answer.She sounds like A keeper to me.Put yourself in the same position> How would you have responded to a question that would have been a negative look into your person?Especially if you had to confess you had a problem!
2007-01-21 07:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lowell R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Herpes is not the end. It´s very personal. You haven´t offered enough background. However ; I do wish too say that more than 50 million Americans are living with Herpes. Treatment is available,but not a Cure. It´s contagious,but definitely not Life threatning. Inform yourself about it. Life will still be enjoyed just as someone living without it.
2007-01-21 07:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend or lover? You are only privy to this info if you are at risk. I think...blah balh etc. as I do not have the virus. It must be hard for people who get it. It has little symptoms. Then, Blam! You have herpes. Who gives a rats about image, 'friend', when you have an incurable disease that no one really understands? Compassion, anyone?
2007-01-21 06:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by daisyjzmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't look like she was "Saving Her Image", , , , Just Ashamed and embarrassed. She cares about you as a person right?? For Sure, She Felt Much Worse When You guys Finaly Talked About It. (not saying that it's OK) But she did eventually tell you, can you say that about your guy friends???? That they would EVER admit to a mistake or God Forbid . . . say SORRY???? Because she's your friend, she was agonizing on HOW to tell you, not that she WOULDN'T tell you.
If you care about her, Why are you calling her "FRIEND" I acctually thought you were referring to a buddy friend.
2007-01-21 07:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FYI...you can not get herpes from sharing food, drinks, etc...you can from kissing if she has sores on her mouth...SO. If she has genital herpes and you two aren't having sex, it should not matter!! That is not information for public knowledge. She really only has to tell whomever she wants to have sex with...Just be her friend.
2007-01-21 07:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should actually read questions before you answer you can tell just bye reading that he sleept with her and as for your question yes she should have told you and yea it is a bad thing but if you used protection then chances of actually catching somethind is near impossible i hope that you did and you will continue to in the future some girls just worry about getting there pussy wet and not the well being of others
2007-01-21 06:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I must agree that she should have know better in regards to sharing stuff with you. However, because the relationship was not sexual I don't think she should have disclosed that information to you at all.
2007-01-21 08:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since she was sharing food and drinks with you, she probably should have told you.
2007-01-23 04:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jeremy© ® ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she may have been embarrassed to tell u it is a personal thing plus scary thing to tell some1 that but the best thing u can do for him/her is to be there for them help them out on the way.
2007-01-21 08:24:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋