Christian?? Gay??

Question

This is a complicated one.

Nature vs. Nurture = Born gay vs. Turning gay.

Either way, since most of Christianity doesn't condone homosexuality, any person who wants to completely devote their life to God would more than likely find that becoming heterosexual is expected.

So since that is a DECISION to become straight, would you think that this would only apply to those homosexuals who made the DECISION to become gay?

And would those who felt they were BORN gay feel that God would need to change them, himself, if they were to ever live a straight life?

Personally, I am a Christian who has no problem with gays. I attribute this mostly to the fact that the Bible tells me to Hate the SIN and Love the PERSON.

Anyways... how does it work for Gays who get Saved????

Answer 1

God hates the sin not the sinner. If a person is gay and gives their life to Christ and abstains from sexually immorality then he/she will go to heaven when he/she dies.

Answer 2

It is ONLY complicated because you choose to make it complicated; no person can really answer this. To me judgement in life between people is bad/evil (especially when people try to be the judge in someone's after life, because we all know who REALLY has that authority) -- no one is without sin, just work on your own. You don't need to *hate* anything and you are not required to *hate* anything, its not your life. You don't need to worry about anyone's saved status but your own.

Decision vs Born -- let me tell you that there really is no difference. The truth is that everyone is born. Once you are able to make decisions you will make decisions. Hopefully you have free will and make the decisions that are right for you. After you are born, eventually you discover/decide on your sex life (no sex, heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, or simply sexuality). You can say that you were BORN gay, but honestly, you cannot be anything without being born first and you were born to make the decisions that you are going to make (and you are not cornered into making them -- more of that free will stuff).

It doesn't matter... love who you want to love.

Answer 3

I went on the internet today
And found a movie of DNA
A double helix spun around and around
Of this I’ve been made
Science has found

A strand from mom, and one from dad
Each strand combined, to make up this lad
But parts got crossed in different ways
The parts that say “boy like girl”
Got switched with mom’s in the swirl
End result being, sorry to say
As far as I can tell, I’m pretty much gay
Can’t seem to help it, it’s in my DNA.

I’ve seen the signs that say,
“God hates fags.”
And I wonder, “Then, why’d he make me this way?”
I wonder if the Bible got it wrong,
If He were broadcasting today,
Would he still sing the same song?

I tried being strong,
And going with girls.
But the desire wasn’t there
By instinct, it just felt wrong
And lying’s unfair, anytime, anywhere.

I don’t know why I’m considered so bad,
Never killed nobody,
Tried to make people glad.
I still believe God loves me
Despite this big fault.
And that is my grace.
I’ve overcome my hate
For God making me this way
And love Him anyway
I wish you the same
With what trials you face.

Meanwhile I live,
And love best who I can.
We try to build a life
With the laws of the land.
It’s not easy to have security
With a population and nation
That judges on sexual purity.

For those of you divorced,
Or who have one on the side,
You know as well as I do
From God you can’t hide.

So here’s what I propose,
For how you who see me as odd
Do the best you can
For whatever its worth
And let judgment reside
In the hands of God,

If you are so certain I’m going to hell,
Wait until I’m dead, and leave me alone
Cause if you cast the first stone
God will leave you to fry in hell all alone.
Go read your Bible, if you wonder why.
Don’t be a spiritual faker
Don’t take on the role
Of our heavenly maker.

Oh yeah, this just in.
One final word:
Love conquers sin.

Answer 4

Sexual orientation wasn't even recognized until the 19th century. Basically it was all interpretation. The original text was not in english.

Sounds like someone set you off and you're just letting off steam, so here I go making it worse. Gays don't need to be saved. The only thing that I don't support is gay marriage. Guess what? I'm not religious either.

Answer 5

Religions preach tolerance but indeed they are the very opposite. Not much difference from superstition. Meanwhile, basically be concerned with whomever you decide to sleep with and allow the rest of the people the same. And do forget about sinning and being saved and the after life rewards. Myths.

Answer 6

I am a Christ follower myself. I will deliver you the sincere reply. And it's the reality. The Lord has made us for the opposite intercourse. If you're christian, you might have heard of Adam and Eve. Remember - God made it that means, considering the fact that for one its the correct means - it is his means. He did not make it Adam and Evan. Of path, anybody inclined on this planet can serve God! He won't refuse anybody! But you must appear on the large photo right here ok. Of path God desires us to have a dedicated and significant dating with him, however there is handiest that a method, and it is not our means - however his means. We are not able to difference it up. You see what I imply? For us to have a committed dating with the Lord Christ, we have to comply with what he says and what he desires for us. And he states all of it within the guide of lifestyles - The Holy Bible. God will consistently love an individual, it doesn't matter what even though. Honestly, in case your happening this fallacious direction, pray. God intends for a person & a females to mate. Then they have got infants. Then in every single place once more. That's the lifestyles he made for us. This is not anything devout and has not anything to do with being any specific means. My recommendation is, whilst you comply with the Lord, comply with him all of the means via!

Answer 7

There is a Christian group on line called "Project Exodus." It's for men and women who were gay and then changed their lifestyles. Some are how happily married to the opposite sex.

Answer 8

Gays cannot be saved. God calls them sodomites. Gays can only be saved if they give up their gay sex life.