how do u find a good parter to be with for the rest of your life and some one who likes and wants kids too?

Answer 1

Pray

Answer 2

There are no guarantees in life. People change, and the person you think they are when you marry them generally are not the same person two years later. Truth is they never were that person. So winding up with a happy marriage is a crap shoot, and you know the odds on that. I have a relative that had a bad marriage. She divorced and rebounded to a guy that had been married twice (two divorces). No one could believe how fast this rebound took. Her second marriage and his third. Who would guess? It is a marriage match that a dating service and all their technology could not have made so perfect. So you never know. I know another guy who married this sweet gal from church. The sweetness lasted two years. So, what is a person to do to ensure a good mate? Well, using the metaphor of a pair of gloves, nobody in their right mind buys a pair of gloves that doesn't fit. Nobody does that. Yet we do it all the time with people we marry. Fact is that some people fit us better than other people do. How can two people walk together down the road of life in disagreement? They can't. The more you agree on life's main issues, the happier your marriage will be. Why marry someone you will be in conflict with over issues important to him/her but not important to you. Two people need to be on the same page. In our society we jump into bed first, then find out our partner's name, then get to know them. That is as* backwards. Acquaintanceship might become friendship, and friendship might become close friendship, which in turn becomes affection, which turns into love and commitment. You cannot force that sequence. It happens. Most people will remain acquantances, but waiting for that natural sequence to love and commitment is hard to do. Our needs propel us into unions that our rational minds would never consider. So if you are smart, and can endure, marry someone that fits you.

Answer 3

I was thinking about the same thing too. well, what i do, is open my eyes and look for girls that seems like they have heart. if I like a woman, i try to make her feel special by giving her attention. one day you will meet someone special that will want to do anything for you. just be patient and you can meanwhile make sure that you dress right, have a hot haircut and that you smile a lot. good luck!

Answer 4

well the last thing you do is you look for them... people say if you're looking for something hard enough, you'll find it, however, this doesn't work in relationships.. if you're looking for someone with some precise characteristics, you'll soon find yourself frustrated and most likely on your own. try to appreciate people that are around you for what they are...they will soon do that to you...all the rest will come with time..

Answer 5

find someone who you never get sick of and never get annoyed. this person is your BEST FRIEND. im sure everything else will just all into place. good luck.