ok..so i have another problem.
on the 4th of this month i started my period, and ended on the 10th. i have [unprotected] sex on the 14th, but i wasnt supposed to start ovulating until around the 16th. my boyfriend came on me [not in me], and then fingered me. today, yesterday and thursday ive been getting really bad stomach aches and minor cramps mixed with really bad ones. ive been having alot of headaches and sleeping more...and my breasts are a little tender..but they dont hurt severly. are the chances of me being pregnant high? or slim?
i want honest answers/facts...no rude remarks or anything like that...please.
2007-01-20 21:26:34 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda H 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
im not supposed to be getting my period until the 4th of next month. which is almost two weeks away.
2007-01-20 21:37:55 · update #1
Basically, you can't actually get pregnant after ovulation. If you're trying to get pregnant then you have about a 6 day window to have sex before ovulation. You had sex about 2 days before ovulation meaning there is a decent chance you could be pregnant.
The reason for this if you are interested is because at the time of ovulation, oestrogen will have caused you cervical membrane to be too thick to be penetrated by the sperm. Bear in mind that it is difficult to get pregnant after ovulation but easier before.
You should now take a pregnancy test. If it come out negative, then wait to see if you have your next period. If it is late AT ALL, then take another one and see the result of that, since there still could be a chance of your being pregnant.
In regards to your stomach pains, if they persist or get any worse you should really go to a Doctor and get seen. Abdominal pains in women is always concerning, especially after unprotected sex.
Good luck and I wish you well!
2007-01-20 22:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mubz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say highly unlikely that you are pregnant. Unless he had some semen on his fingers and this was inserted into you - but as you say the dates are wrong - so I guess of the above is true then a slim chance but not much. Get an early test to be sure - you can buy tests that will let you know 4 days before your next period is due. Good luck with whatever answer it is you actually want.
2007-01-20 22:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Islandgirlss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible you could be pregnant, but it is also possible you may just be going to get your period too. If you are stressing so much it can delay your period from starting on time.
Try to relax, if you are still worried then go and get a test kit from the supermarket or the pharmacy or even see a women's health clinic nurse and they can do the test for you there.
Good luck .
2007-01-20 21:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by caz_v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the info you've given is correct, you're chances of pregancy are very slim. You should be able to get results from a pregancy test now. But it seems very slim chance that you'd be pregnant given the facts.
2007-01-20 21:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that it's not just pregnancy that you risk having unprotected sex.......now that's out the way. Chances r slim but you could also have a tract infection. Go to docs and chat to her about it. You could need antibiotics.
2007-01-20 21:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you CAN ovulate 10 days after onset of period..if i were you i wouldnt even gamble like that..you can also get pregnant even if you don't orgasm and he doesn't ejaculate in you....trust me on that one. hopefully you are late..in my experience i have been late especially when i am anxiously awaiting the arrival of anything that resembles blood..and i also got those symptoms (progesterone hormone levels peak during this time of month,which can cause symptoms. best of luck and DONT gamble...you WILL get pregnant eventually!
2007-01-20 21:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by mangotangome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test, its the only way to know. If what you said is true, your chances are slim.....however.....there are exceptions to every rule and for your own sanity, don't worry about it until its time to worry. Whats done is done, or what isn't done, isn't done. Be smart and just take a test! good luck...
2007-01-20 21:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNFORTUNATELY, THOSE SIGNS MAY LEAD TO SEVERAL THINGS...I.E URINARY TRACT INFECTION IS THE MOST COMMON. STRESS OVER BEING PREGNANT MAY CAUSE PSYCHO-SOMATIC SYMPTOMS. YOUR OPTIONS ARE TO WAIT OR TAKE A HOME PREGNANCY TEST. IF YOU LEARN YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT, YET THESE SYMPTOMS PERSIST, THEN CONSULT A PHYSICIAN. PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT ANY TIME YOU ENGAGE IN UNPROTECTED SEX YOU ARE RISKING PREGNANCY...OVULATING OR NOT. GOOD LUCK TO YOU. HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT!
2007-01-20 21:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Rio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you stopped having unprotected sex you wouldnt need to ask this question.
Ofcourse it would be best if you stopped having sex all together. at least till u get married.
God bless
2007-01-21 01:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by Classique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be because of muscle fatigue or dehydration. Why don't you try some time tested home remedies? I found this website very useful. http://aches.in/cramps.html
2007-01-21 09:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Daphne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋