if you could relive a moment of your life & change it what would it be ?

Question

and why? just curious, thanks...

i didn't put what i would relive because i thought it would take to long to write thank you so much for all of your answers there is no way i could choose just one because the ones i've already read have moved me so much...in my own life now i wouldn't want to change a thing its not great but its also not terrible...i would of talked to my mom before walking out of the hospital room if i knew i would never again i would of never told my dad i'd call him back later if i would have know 10 min. later he died alone of a heart atack but most of all i would have held my son closer to me had i know his father was going to take him away from me never to be seen or heard of again its going on five years alot of greif to no avail of finding him ....thank you again for your responses for its good to see i'm not the only one out there think about the past sometimes

Answer 1

The moment I would change (even though it was completely out of my control )would be the car accident in which my mother died. I was 14 at the time and had had a disagreement with mum that fateful morning she left for work.
I would love to relive that day without the accident and find out how life continued for my parents, brother and myself. Through counselling (years down the track) I have dealt with the grief ( and some other problems experienced around the time of my mother's death) but I don't feel that my father and brother have come to terms with the death after so many years.
We can't rewind the clock on matters like this and I am grateful that both parents weren't lost in the accident which wasn't my father's fault.Dad is still with us today. As with your question I would be curious to find out how life would have panned out for the family if the morning had been different.
Thanks for your question.

Answer 2

Given the chance to go back to a previous point and change a decision...

I would go back to about 1970 and be in the right place to find my present day husband, so that all the ensuing years I would be with him, and not have gone through the other 2 divorces I went through...

He would not have gone through the 2 divorces he went through either, and I am sure I speak for him also when I say, I would NOT retain the memories of what we already went through and gave up in order to be together...

There has been much pain and death and divorce and children running away to keep that as a memory...

I would go back to that point in time, before I met my first husband, and find my current husband, and marry him instead, so we would start out our life together, and make our own children and home, and I would feel good and not be in pain and so would he...

I am even crying as I write this as it hurts so much to think of what all has gone wrong in both of our lives in the last 36 years, that I wish I could forget it all and start over being in my 20's again with the right man this time...
Now...where do I step in to the booth for this to take place???

Answer 3

Once,as I was walking in the park with my friends I saw 2 boys hitting a mental ill boy.I walked away without doing anything.I wish I could relive that day cause till this day I couldn't get used with the idea that I could have done something and I didn't.I could have called someone or I could have made the 2 boys stop hitting the other one cause I do martial arts.I can't explain to my self why I didn't react and I just walked away.

Answer 4

i might relive moments in my existence that have been in basic terms non violent and organic. Sorry, yet they might could exchange for it to be a appropriate 2nd. From my kitteh sound asleep under my nostril, to mendacity by using the coastline absorbing the solar. From eating the wonderful chocolate strawberries interior the international, to gaining information of recent and exciting issues. Giving any kinfolk member a hug. Wow, there is many. i'm grateful.

Answer 5

i don't really think i'd change anything for now.....i kinda believe that everything you do is tied into your future in some way, so if i changed something in my past...then i'm scared i'd change the future....but i don't wanna do that cuz i like my life right now. but if i could go back and change a moment in my life without changing the future....then i would definately not have let my best friend move away without showing him how i truly felt about him. and now its too late.....

Answer 6

I'm in my 40's so I've lived enough to know that I would change so many things but we don't get that opportunity so I just live my life in the present and enjoy it. I think the secret to being fulfilled and happy isn't to think about what you have done that you regret in the past but to love life now. :)

Answer 7

It's hard to think of something that i want to relive and change. I think I am much happier today than in the past and what I have today is the best things than what I lost. So sorry dear, I can't help you. :)

Answer 8

I'd like to not move out of a particular house in my final year at university.

It had far reaching effects to my self belief that took years to change. I wouldn't want to change how my life has gone since then.

Answer 9

Just in phantasms, I would become a great musician, I would work more on maths, or I would concentrate on being a great tennis player.
Instead, I'm only an amateur pianist, an engineer and not a rocket scientist, and my tennis ranking ... well, forget about that one!

Answer 10

only a moment!
that's not very generous, and here's me in my 40s now with countless moments that would be better changed.
top of the list though? i would have overcome my shyness all those years ago and asked her out on a date; just to see what if...
and if not, it would at least exorcise her ghost!