this girl is giving trouble?

Question

in my primary school life i didnt hav many friends becoz of one girl, she was always such abitch making up rumour about me , telling ppl i said bad stuff about them even wen i didnt!, and so i ended up with no frendz, in high school no one from my primary school was there so i got to start a new life and tried to avoid girls like her, i have lots of frendz at my igh school, my old frend from rimary school(she always stuk with me good times and bad=)) goes to the same school as this bitarch, me and my bestie play this online game togetha, that horrible girl she joined the online game and made like 50 accounts just to annoy us, she always tried to annoy us and sware at us, wat should we do, any chance she gets she will try to hurt me and my bestie? wat is the meaning of this , if only u knew her u would wanna beat the living sh.it out of her. so y does she do this , i dont understand, help and wat should i do?

Answer 1

well you are always going to run into people like this. believe me i know how it feels at your age i would of kick her @** but that's not the best way to solve your problems. obviously she is jealous of you. You really can't do anything to people like this... but to ignore them as much as you can i know it's hard.. but if you show her that she is hurting you then she has won against you. She wants to making your life a living hell like hers is.. when people pick on other people they are probably getting pick on themselves or are not happy within their own lives . when she bothers you and your friend just be confident and just say nice things to her because eventually she will get mad and leave you alone because you are taking it so lightly.. she is getting off by making you so upset... kill her with kindness even if you don't mean none of it . i really thinks she wants to be you because anyone who can sit up her and bother someone like this has some type of problems . you also can say to her and tell other people that you know she wants to be with you and see how she feels . i go through this a lot as an adult and i get piss at times too but like the saying goes "misery loves company" and i don't want no one to make me as miserable as they are. just keep you head up girl and feel good about yourself everyday even more now that you know you must be the sh** because someone wants to be you and spends all day thinking about you . i just want to let you know don't let this bother you no more because i did when i was young and it ruined a lot of my life just no who you are and know that no one can tell you who you are but you and god and those are the two people you should only worry about (and family)..and those people she told that you where talking about them eventually they will see right through her lies

Answer 2

What A ***** I'd Want to do the Same thing TO Her I'D Help u F her Up If I cud.What is She Like Fing 12 Yaers Old? That Is How She Acking Waht A Fing Little *****....How u Should Deel with this....Have u Tryed Doing The Same Thing's To Her Say Crap About her.With out Geting Into A Full Fist Fight..She Duz This crap To Piss you Off DONT let her Bring U Down. You know YOU Are Way Beter then HER. B STEONG. Dont let Anyone Bring u Dowm K? Best of luck To You..Hope I Helped Alittle.....

Answer 3

You need to call her on it. She is very insecure and can only feel good about herself by making others feel bad. You are obviously a threat to her on some level. Honestly, if you were such a loser and she was so effing cool, why would she care about you at all? Why would she invest so much of her time and energy into putting you down? Let this knowledge comfort you if you are not a confrontational person. If you can muster it, ask her why she would go out of her way to do these things if she doesn't care what you think. It would take time to investigate and invade your online activities, and to create so many accounts. What is she getting out of it except a lot of wasted time. She's the loser, not you. Remember that, and don't let her immaturity get to you.

Answer 4

Even If you rebell, or ignore things are not gonna change. let me tell you something, there was this girl in high school who use to do similiar things with me. Trust me, for five long years. all i did was heard whatever she said, smiled at her, and went away. I read in an Indian Folklore about a great guru. he use to go to a certain river for meditating and having bath every single day. on his way back after bath, there use to be this man sitting on the branch of a tree, everytime the guru passed the tree the man would spit on him. the guru use to go back and have bath. this continued for almost a month, latter the man who use to spit felt ignored, devastated and freky, he come to the guru and said sorry. the guru looked at him and said - why for? you did not do anything wrong, you just did your work of disturbing me and i did my work of disturbing you. yet i fell holy, and you don't. To this certain girl in school i did the same thing when she came and asked me why i never reacted. i said - well, because dogs bark, don't they? be calm and you will disturb her more then she can imagine. hope it works.and even then if she trubles, simply ask her - dont you get tired? you almost wasted an entire life on me. am i really that worth? well she hopefully will fell ashamed. AND REMEMBER, YOU ACTUALLY MEAN A LOT TO HER. YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO HER. STAY CONFIDENT, STAY LIGHT. HOPE IT WORKS. BYE.TC.

Answer 5

I know it is hard with jealous individuals around (yes there is some jealousy here), but try to ignore her. Oh yes she is going to get her just deserts and you don't have to have anything to do with it. Keep in mind, in the grand scheme of things, she will get hers. Just do not acknowledge her in any way. As far as friends go, keep in mind, that in life, it is not an individual's life that is f***ked up, but the people in it, in time you will acquire "true" friends, stay true to yourself, hum or say a silent prayer, but don't give into the masses. This type of thing happens all the time in school settings, and it is usually the "smaller" minded individual that keeps junk slinging, don't even give it a second thought. Good luck.

Answer 6

She is jealous of the attention you get or ever got and is cutting your chances of getting anymore by sabotaging you. Just discount her as the real attention seeking nobody she is and do not give her what she wants... ATTENTION or NOTICE! Don't appear to even remember her. If it comes to that, tell her politely that you do not remember her. Make her go into detail and still maintain no show of emotion. Just never acknowledge her. Furthermore, don't go into detail with your best friend or anyone beyond saying you did not want to know her because she is too needy and nutty for attention.

Answer 7

The girl you are talking about is most probably miserable,frustrated and envious, but she sure is doing some serious damage on you.You might ask a professional counselor for help, because mobbing (this is what the girl is doing to you) is not an easy thing to cope with (even by grown ups).

Answer 8

She won't carry on if she gets no reward from it. If you respond, that's her reward. Do something very grown up - ignore her (not in a pointed way!) and what she does, and when you can, even smile at her in passing - a nice smile, not a gloat or anything.

If you can do that, she will probably stop and can get the chance to grow up herself.

Answer 9

sounds like she's jealous of you. the best thing to do is ignore her. pretend like she doesn't even exist. after awhile, she'll get bored and move on to someone else. if she doesn't, then tell the cops you've got a stalker!

Answer 10

anonymously call the cops and tell them you suspect your 'neighbour' is dealing drugs (give them her address)
LOL
i know its not a nice thing to do .. karma will come back on her dont worry.
ignore her and enjoy life with your real friends

or you could just punch her in the head real hard so she will get the message!!