She's starbucks worker,said out of blue asked if we're hiring. Said sent job app. and that's it. He never does this and after 2 months finanly admitted he knew her just small chit chat when getting coffee. Also works with many women and seems more interested in appearance than before. Claims innocent
2007-01-20 20:45:19 · 7 answers · asked by nancy e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd say you should trust your husband. You're being a faithful wife and that's what should matter. If he his having an affair, God will judge him. And as for the small chit chat with the Starbucks workers.. Starbucks is known for its legendary service. Baristas are encouraged to start conversations with customers, hopfully bringing in 'regulars' to the store. There's a big chance that the girl is just doing her job.
2007-01-20 20:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, start taking care of yourself (more than usual), spend some private time, visit cinema or a theater, enjoy...if you want to keep him, get him interested in a subtle manner. If this does not work, you are going to end up as a good looking, interesting woman, attractive and self confident person.
2007-01-20 20:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's mean and abusive now, I assure you, after he has his foot amputated, the subject is going to get a good deal worse. no matter how ill my husband grow to be, if he took off for seven days and whether or no longer he grow to be with yet another woman, the locks on the doorways could have been replaced till now he have been given living house. Fifteen years of marriage, no intercourse on your existence, you have stood by skill of him by all this and his ailment and that's how he treats you!!!!! do no longer you think of you deserve greater powerful then this? I agree, you do no longer could desire to have intercourse with somebody to cheat on your important different. If he have been my husband, i could kick his cheating a$$ to the shrink.
2016-11-25 23:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by bleimehl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not easy to jump into conclusions that he has been faithful. Anyway we will give a benefit of doubt. You have to ask as if you are in your normal state (which is not easy) and do the research your self. Asking him is a complete waste of time. If you have the money you could hire a PI
2007-01-20 20:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 13 yrs of marriage, perhaps it`s just his way of testing his attractiveness to other woman. Give him the benefit of doubt, and feed his ego a bit. Step up ur desire to please him in bed, then see what happens, before jumping to conclusions you may latter regret. Play the wait and see game, that is, if u still love ur husband.
2007-01-20 21:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after all this time and just now worried about his appearance, he's either thinking about it or already started. Big eye opener is when he can't tell the truth about knowing someone.
2007-01-20 20:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we don't for sure know if something is going on or not, we can count on our intuition to tell the truth when we have no evidence. when they are paying more attention to appearance it is almost a sure sign that they are trying to impress someone and it usually isn't his wife.
2007-01-21 01:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋