Okay I admit that most of the time I don't take this site seriously but I'm going to ask anyway. Why would someone who made it quite clear that she wanted out of a marriage, filed for divorce and left for another coast, took her husband for everything he had to include his children not be able to let go? She is still bitter and digging around trying to dig up dirt on her EX and drags him into court every chance she gets. When will she move on and get a life of her own? Can't she see this has to have an effect on the kids?
2007-01-20 20:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel sorry for you guy, but speaking as a woman, some women can't let go. They have a mental problem that makes them very bitter. I feel that it is up to you whether you are happy or not. Good luck to you. I am married to a man who has a lot of the same problems.
Again, good luck.
2007-01-20 20:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is unfortunate to drag children into divorces and the aftermath of them. eventually, the woman you speak of will give up and will get a life. the final divorce decree should have included limits as to what she can "dig up". the custody issues, visitation, property division, ownership of bills and child support amount should all be in the decree. the divorce should have settled it all. if not, there were lousy lawyers involved in the first place.
2007-01-21 08:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually dont think of kids or anything but themselves.
They hurt there kids and the kids will hate them for it.
They usually do have a life, they want freedom yet want to keep there EX close to them so they know what there up too.
2007-01-21 04:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have a nice who have 2 kids and say she did wanted out of her marriage but every time it time to go she call it of and tell him she wont to work think out it last about 3 mouth that she gone a gone and Levey the kids
2007-01-21 04:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't let go because she isn't as happy as she thought she would be, she is angry and hurt because it looks as if he is now happy without her, so she wants to make him feel as bad as she does. she doesn't care if it affects the children or not, she is miserable and knows there is no way this man will ever take her back.
2007-01-21 09:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a new one...can't help ya though. I left and I kept going, didn't look back and don't care what he's doing.
2007-01-21 10:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if she is unhappy she feels that she is justified in making sure you are just as unhappy as she is no matter whose fault it is.
2007-01-21 04:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by cds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is hurt you coped so well without her
2007-01-21 04:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋