2007-01-20 20:37:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Try giving yourself mental cues and preparing general questions to ask people. The best questions are questions about the other person, such as "how are you" or "what did you do today." If you're prepared, you are less likely to feel shy, and will loosen up in social situations.
2007-01-20 22:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you can give us more info to work on (your age, race, what you want to achieve, do you have friends, ect...) I can give you some answers but not sure if it would fit to your situation. Anyway, learn to make friends, good reliable friends. Start opening up but not too much. People does not need to know your personal life. It is reserved for your good friends. FORCE yourself to make small talks to people. Slowly build up on that and start a good conversation. Then if someone asks you to join a party do not hesitate. It is the opportunity for you to meet and talk to people. Do not discourage if some people would not to talk to you. That is life. You win some, you loose some. For you to succeed you must be very DETERMINED to get out of your shell and become a new person.
2007-01-21 00:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're shy and meaning you're in for it?
just go for it since you've decided. once done twice the confidence. you'll get used to it unless you're undecided.
ok? get over it, who knows, you may long for more? there's always a first time for everything.
2007-01-23 19:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing some thing new that scares you at least once a week.
that helped me.
2007-01-20 21:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i know u dont want to hear this but shyness is a fear that u have to overcome. use the support of friends.
2007-01-20 20:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by jsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hide under the covers....vanilla is fun too !
2007-01-20 22:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surrender, initially. You will get bolder, after sometime.
2007-01-20 21:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by ajayv9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start going to the mall , & being around thousands of people ...
2007-01-20 23:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide if you are a top or a bottom
and adjust your lifestyle accordingly!
2007-01-20 21:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you do without.
2007-01-20 20:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋