we knew for a fact that i was pregnant until about 4 weeks ago i came on my period and after that happend he refuses tell his mom unless he knows for sure that i am pregnant. and my mom is buggin me about being pregnant(she dosnt know yet) and i dont know what to do. in my family when your pregnant you dont show until almost 9 months. so my boyfriend wonts to be in denial right now because he isnt sure about that to.what should i do???
i should be 6 months,and im 15 fin to be 16 and my boyfriend is 16
2007-01-20 20:18:51 · 15 answers · asked by *pretty girl* 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
please NO mean responses,comments etc. u show respect ,i show respect
2007-01-20 20:19:38 · update #1
You are young and you need all the support you can get. Please call Planned Parenthood or your local health department and verify if in fact you are pregnant. If you are you need to tell both of your parents right away and come up with a plan of action.
Remind your boyfriend that you are both very young and the best way to show resposibilty now is by doing the right thing before things get too complicated. Both sets of parents will respect you more for being truthful than for hiding the truth.
This is about a baby, not about you or your boyfriend. Once you become pregnanct you become a parent and that baby will always come first. Its in your child best interest to have the very best start in life, this means a supportive family and prenatal care.
Don't worry, you both can do this, you must as its your responsibilty. You may have not done this right by getting pregnant so young, but you can do it right now by doing the responsible thing.
Best wishes, and remember that YOU are the mommy now and you must do whats right for your child no matter how upsetting it may be for you and the baby's father.
2007-01-20 20:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by laketahoedragoness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing would be to find out 100% that you are pregnant. getting a period is not unusual during pregnancy but there could also be something else going on. your boyfriend is okay in not telling his mom until he is completely sure that you are pregnant. by this point if you are pregnant you should be able to feel it moving around regardless of how much you may be showing. get a pregnancy test or 2 or visit a doctor,free clinic whatever. for your safety and you possible child.
2007-01-20 20:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by skunkfairy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all i agree with him , why say anything until you know 100%. Secondly why dont you know 100%? If you even think your pregnant , and especially if your sure you are you shaould have been to the doctor for tests a long time ago. Anyhow go to the doctor get checked out and he will tell you for sure or not if you are . At that point youll have proof and hell have no choice. Also why are you complaining about him when you havnt told your mom either? Your acting like a child. If you want to act grown up and have sex and make babies you need to pull your head out of your back side and grow up and start showing some responsibility because your in for a HUGE surprise when all of a sudden you have a baby to care for 24/7.
2007-01-20 20:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't quite undrstand if you know you are pregnant or if you think you are. The first thing would be to get a pregnancy test. Go to your local planned parenthood office. If you are 6 months pregnant you should certainly be seeing an OB doctor and getting the proper prenatal care for the baby. It seems that your mom suspects so why don't you ask her for a pregnancy test. Now that wasn't mean was it?
2007-01-20 20:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by bdebmore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly find out if you are 100% pregnant.
Have a blood test at the doctors because if you are you two are going to have to grow up real fast and tell your parents.
You will also have to get everything ready for the baby if it's coming in 3 months.
Also you will need to talk to your parents about school and your education.
Please do not waste another day, go and find out for sure and take action as your time is running out.
If you are not pregnant please think twice before you have sex so you don't get yourself in this mess again.
All the best
2007-01-20 20:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why the hell tell the family until you know for sure?
are you trying to get pregnant?
i agree 100% with your boyfriend do not tell the family until you are sure and if its a false alarm for Christ sake use protection you are both too young for a baby
I'm not trying to be rude just giving you the grown up answer
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what do you mean you should be 6months but got your period wks ago? you need to see a doctor then worry about things. i cant believe that you think you are that far along and haven't seen the doctor. do you realize how much care is needed? during and after pregnancy?
2007-01-20 20:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by mum_2_many 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, if you are 6 months along - why have you not been to the doctor long before now? Secondly, if you are in fact that far along, you will have felt the baby move by now & so would anyone else that touched your tummy while the little one is being active. Go to the doctor NOW!!
2007-01-20 22:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by sandypaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a positive test, then a period.. it was probably a chemical pregnancy(early miscarriage) and you probably aren't pregnant now. Get a home test, or get a blood test and find out for sure. No need for him to tell his mom unless you're positively pregnant. And if in fact you are, you need to tell your mom too. Goto planned parenthood, they can test you.
2007-01-20 20:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your having your period, there may be a possiblity that you just may not be pregnant. I do suggest going to a clinic with your boyfriend to find out for sure if you really are pregnant. I do suggest to take good care of yourself and don't hide it from his or your parents. You need to seek medical care. And if he denies to tell his parents, discuss it with him that this is a SERIOUS issue that he can't keep denying. Good luck to you.
2007-01-20 20:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Faye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the health department and get a pregnancy test. It will alleviate any doubt the two of you might have about this situation. Then you can go from there. If you are pregnant call planned parenthood. They will help you to break it to your parents and council you about your situation.
2007-01-20 20:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋