Basically, apart from husband's current unstable employment status, he is a good natured man. It means that he is not fooling around, he does not drink alchool, he does not smoke. I guess that he has just been in unfortunate period now where many people also have came across such crisis. Do you think that you should file for divorce? Or when good time comes again, I know that he will be able to get back to better condition/ or fortune.
2007-01-20 20:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the only reason to file for divorce is unstable employment, that is not a good reason. Sometimes people fall on hard times and get a good run of bad luck. If you love him you will support him and give him encouragement until he finds a stable job. This is your job as his wife.
2007-01-20 20:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by fieldpot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if you worked for the automobile industry, and through no fault of your own your work situation was volatile? What if the plants in your town were closing because of competition from other car companies, especially foreign car companies or the public's love affair with SUVs was finally over and that's the car your plant produces? Then, even though you're a good wife and mother, your husband decides to divorce you because your employment has been unstable?
You can't be in it just when things are good between you. Instead of giving him the boot support him by helping to pick up the slack; encourage him to take a class to improve his skills or try a new career altogether.
I don't want to be rude, but I can't believe that you're even considering this. There are too many other options. This is only a good idea if you are looking to devastate someone who is a good man and doing the best he can.
2007-01-20 20:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What state do you live in? In California, if you been married less than 5 years, you have no kids and no property to split valued at more than $5,000 it's relatively easy. You just pay about $330 and wait 6 months after filing and it's over. It's called Summary Dissolution. Otherwise...get a lawyer.
2016-05-24 04:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him! five years?! it doesn't take that long to get a stable job. It's obvious he doesn't care to keep one, doesn't think it's important, or doesn't care to upgrade his credentials to maintain a good job. By the way are you supporting him maybe he just is too comfortable with you taking care of everything. Your husband is supposed to be your life partner?! can you go through life supporting a grown man? Your better off alone. He is bringing your standard of living down. He is a child not a husband. ARE YOU SERIOUS? !
Yeah he treats you right but is not contributing anything financially. So he's a good friend not husband. Unless he is a house husband and stays home for the kids and maintaining the house.
2007-01-20 20:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by salena1981 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow that is just wrong. File for divorce because he has not had good employment situations.
To have and to hold thru sickness or in health, for richer or for poorer.
IF he was beating you, yes, cheating and would not stop yes.
Cause he is haveing a tough time getting a good job. NO
Try encouraging him telling him you believe in him. If he is going thru depression, seek help.
If you leave him for this you are just one more person kicking him when he is down.
2007-01-20 20:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by xxgq 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. It doesn't sound like you love him anyway so you might as well file for divorce and get it over with. No small children involved? No complex issues? I say Set Him Free.
2007-01-20 20:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You forgot to mention that you married for money. If it was me and you brought this up I'd just tell you my lawyer would be in touch and show you the door. Hell you don't want a husband you want a free ride. He probably has realized that life's a ***** and then you marry one.
2007-01-21 03:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by oldokie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are not taking your vows seriously!
Remember in there it said through rough and good times?
He is going through rough times...you need to be there supporting him and maybe contributing financially as well. Are you working or just sitting home complaining?
2007-01-20 20:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FILE for a divorce. is he a pisces or an aries?
2007-01-20 20:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce and move on...there is no reason to wait for someone to grow up when you can move on.
2007-01-20 20:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋