The other day at school, some kid decided it was funny to give me a bump on my head by hitting me with the door. And everyone in my class was laughing. And everytime i heard someone laughing even if i didnt know why they were laughing, i wanted to really hurt that person. i s there anything wrong with me? im 13.
2007-01-20 20:03:41 · 13 answers · asked by De$tRoYeR_13 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I guess most of us would react like you. Especially when you are 13. But the guy who hurt you was wrong in doing that. He has more problems than you if he gets a kick out of doing such things. Just to add a diff side to your personality & if you have the time why not try learning some karate or something along those lines? Just to help you to feel powerful. There are a lot of bullies out there.
2007-01-20 20:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Praxis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is very natural and don't ever let them do that again to you? I hope you told your parents? That is not a cry baby or a snitch, and it is not for you to hit that guy back whoever? They are clearly a moron, and lashing out with their ignorance. It is very important to protect your head. Head injuries are very dangerous and if you don't tell this it will continue. Those kids laughing are really ignorant and obviously don't have a grip on reality. Laughing at someone unless they are a clown is stupid, and you were injured that is not funny. They are the people that will laugh at someone hit by a car too? They are abnormal. You are normal. Compassion is hard to find, but repremanding this problem is a moral issue and your teacher should chaste that bunch for laughing at someone in pain, and show them why by giving them an education about laughing with people and at themselves and not at others. It is the same philosphy of talking at someone, or with them. Thirteen is young and with time and education on these subjects and your ability to come forward and express yourself with compassion is going to be your success.
2007-01-20 20:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Its normal to be angry. Its normal, too, that if people were laughing you would have kind of thought that other laughers could be laughing at you as well.
It was a crummy thing for some jerk to do, and kids your age laugh at stuff.
Wanting to hurt someone and actually doing it are two different things too.
So, again, yes, it is normal. The whole incident will pass, and when you're not 13 any longer you'll start to notice less "jumbling" of who you get angry at when someone specific does something to you. You were upset, angry and 13 the other day - that's all.
2007-01-20 20:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your reaction is totally normal and healthy|
Every normal person wants to see the unjust punished and served justice|
But you have to be careful there||
Public school administrations have *emasculated* the boys in our public schools||||||||
In the old days, if someone was being an a** h*** you took him outside and gave him a good beating|
Generally, that smartened him up!
Even more wonderful, your former persecutor may have learned from that to respect you, and become your best friend!
But if you try that now, you can be expelled or even sent to jail |||||
The Democrats have a vested interest in keeping such a system alive|
That is why they are opposed to school vouchers that would allow parents to send their child to a better school to avoid the horrendous public schools||||| ||||| |||||
Notice that the short form for Democrats is Dem?
Dem is simply a contraction of "Demon."
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2007-01-20 21:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything abnormally wrong, unless you consider holding a grudge a bad thing.
My opinion is that you regret not doing something at the moment it happened, and now that regret is showing itself by you getting mad whenever someone laughs.
2007-01-20 20:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by MrItwasgood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 21:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no unless you respond this bully will continue to antagonize you. your problem is that you are normal in an abnormal world. in the past the teacher would have intervened .today the fear of frivolous lawsuits prevent teacher intervention
2007-01-20 20:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quiet normal. No one likes to be laughed at.
2007-01-20 20:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by cupid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there isn't. he was pulling a cruel joke on you and everyone else was just as bad for taking it as a joke. he hit you. i guess thats what the three stooges influence
2007-01-20 20:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's nothing wrong with you. you are normal and love yourself. did you report this kid to the principal? it sounds like he takes the little bus home.
2007-01-20 20:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋