2007-01-20 19:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by Trish S 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No one can make someone else ashamed. Period. People always say, "I'm so ashamed of being seen with so-and-so." This is a load of BS. No one else can make you ashamed. Shame comes from WITHIN. Therefore, if your ashamed, it YOUR fault, not someone else's!
So, it MUST be that he's ashamed of something ABOUT HIMSELF! Not you! Perhaps he's not strong enough to be seen in public with a beautiful transexual lady like you! Do not take this personal, the flaw is NOT YOURS. . . ITS HIS!
2007-01-20 20:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the transsexual is afraid to go out without being harrassed
2007-01-21 03:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never be with a trans as (sex) because I'm straight but I would go out with them if they were my friends or so .
You must be open minded .
Any way if you love the man you are talking about then try to feel with him , he may have some problems to solve before going out with you or he will be hurt some how , or just waiting for the proper time to go out with you , if you love him you will feel with him .
2007-01-21 07:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not acceptable by most people's standard and he's worried about it.
2007-01-21 03:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by djm749 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't accepted himself.
2007-01-22 02:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is only after pre-ops, then he is probably gay, and cannot accept it.
2007-01-21 03:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its there fear of being ridiculed or being seen by someone they may know.
2007-01-22 02:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Crystal C ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because of the social stigma/taboo attached to it
2007-01-21 04:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by bigwoodenhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is ashamed. As he should be.
2007-01-21 03:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Leo_B_Scotch 3 · 0⤊ 7⤋