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at work i have to make some ppl to like me. I try to be nice to them them i am afriad that they will take advantages from me.

2007-01-20 19:32:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Sociology

11 answers

show some attitude
but be nice as well
that way they 'll know that your friendly but your not gonna let them walk all over you !.

2007-01-20 19:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

All you can do is do your work the best you can, be friendly and decent, and if they like you they like you; if they don't they don't.

Being nice and being someone who is taken advantage of are not always the same thing. It is possible to be nice but to draw the line when it appears someone is trying to take advantage.

If you try to "make people like you" you may not succeed because when people are trying to make people like them they are often phony or contrived. Just be nice and don't worry about who likes you.

2007-01-21 04:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 1 0

After a long and hard thinking, I can answer your question. Keep on being nice to them. If they don't like you, their is nothing you can do. I worked with some girls who tried to get me fired for something every week. I helped them do their job, and they told me that I came out to get coffee too much (I washed dishes for 12 hours a day, and the coffee pot was at the bar). Its also fun finding ways to mentally mess with them, that doesn't count as harasment. I like to call it, mind *******. You sike them. Its a lot of fun and their isn't a damn thing they can do about it. For example. My friend was having a problem with one of them for some time. He accidentally dropped a spoon in the garbage, and she went to town chewing him out and acting like it was the end of the world (telling the boss he was losing equitment). So he used it to stir her tea that she "loved". Yummy!

2007-01-21 04:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

By not being the sort of dork that has to ask this sort of question in the first place.

You cannot MAKE people truly like you. It is something that comes from them not you - you can't make it happen.

Although (see link) there are people who will make people like you dislike yourself even more by selling you this type of book.

2007-01-21 03:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Clean clear Honest

2007-01-21 03:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The Golden Rule.

and...

Being liked is a bi-product of living your life. Its nice but should not be necessary.

2007-01-21 04:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The truth is that you cannot make people like you hun. You need to be yourself and realise that if they don't like you then they have lost out not you.

2007-01-21 10:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by boopie240 2 · 0 0

I once got this advice:

"You don't have to be interesting. You just have to be interested."

Respect your individuality - and demand others to respect it - and just show genuine interest in people and their worries and you'll gain friends in no time.

2007-01-21 03:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mario E 5 · 3 0

I have the same problem as you.

2007-01-21 08:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by zinam 3 · 0 0

well they dont like u thats there problem rite?

2007-01-21 03:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by LIL B 3 · 0 0

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