why am i NOT attractive??

Question

hi, WHY AM I NOT ATTRACTIVE??

i mean not pysically, i go to GYM, i hav fine Attitude.......

but i mean why in net everybody ignores ME???

for Example, i was a member of 'hi5' in 2004, not EVEN a single friend has been made 4rm there! (except one, but she's GONE)

so, how am i gonna b attractive, what DO I HAV 2 do??

Answer 1

Well, for starters, don't post desperate questions like this for all the world to see...

Be yourself.... anyone who does not like you for you is not worth it!

Answer 2

out of all the people I know that use "friend-network" sites like hi5, friendster or facebook, they all use it to keep a list of their CURRENT friends, not to make new ones.

Even if a small percentage of people surf hi5 and randomly add others, then surely only the people who "stand out" will be added. What standing out means will differ between persons, but it could be physical attractiveness, similar hobby, living in a nearby neighbourhood etc.

However, (this is my own opinion), I believe that it is most important to be accepted within your own local group of people, not some random person online. It might be those at work, other students in your school program, or teammates in a sports team. To be accepted within these groups, I'd just say..don't hide yourself. Express yourself truly, and don't misjudge people and hold grudges against them for things that may not even be real. Relationships (any type) is about communication, not assumptions and hesitation.

I think that relationships (any type) developed on the net is usually shallower, so I'd recommend against it.

Best of luck!

Answer 3

Well I read in your personal description that "You are not a kind person" that is a place to start do a good deed for someone every day, it doesn't have to be a big gesture a simple hello, or holding a door open or helping someone with heavy package etc.. You will feel better about yourself and smile at people. Smiling is like a heavy penguin it will break the ice, and be yourself.

Answer 4

You're talking about being attractive on the net and the only thing people can be attracted to you for, is what you write and how you write it.

So write well, be interesting and positive.

Answer 5

first of all, if you wear a hat like that in real life........don't. try being funny sometimes (don't over do it. there's nothing weirder than a guy trying too hard to be funny) and start conversations. don't just wait for people to come to you. make sure to smile and not look like you want to be alone (crossing your arms and looking down is something you really don't want to do.) just be yourself!

Answer 6

you can't just sit there and people will come to you, especially not women because a man is to make the first move. just be yourself and mingle. a persons personality is the biggest turn on!

Answer 7

Not trying to sound rude.but why are you asking people "on-line" to validate you? Only your opinion of yourself should matter, not selfish egotistical everyday Joe's you meet on the street.

Answer 8

your trying to hard just be yourself there's someone out there that will find you attractive its not just by your appearance its how you act. Have Confidence go out and do stuff

Answer 9

their loss dude. for some reason, people like the pigs and losers today. look at Britney. just wait and the right one will come to ya. don't try to impress just be your self.

Answer 10

Be yourself, there is someone out there for everyone.
Raymond even found me, who would have thought that!