I regret it and admit it was immature but like a year or 2 ago, i pretended i was a guy and tryed to get naked pics of girls i guess i was going through that curiousity stage where you think you could be bi because you get turned on by girls which i wouldn't do it now! I don't have anything against people like that but it's not for me but anyways or i would just pretend i was a guy and get normal pictures or just talk to a girl and pretend to be a guy and be all nice to get information out of them like if i was with a guy to see if he is a player or to see what she said about me or to see if they would cheat and tell their boyfriend! I am 17 now. but this girl i am starting to be friends with is friends with one of the one of the girls i did this to and i feel i have to tell her or anyone i did it to. I feel like it's my OCD acting up and making me obsess that is why i am posting it here. I feel like i don't deserve friends. I feel like a fake and a poser and not a good person at all!
2007-01-20 18:40:20 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley T 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Nope, never done that. If you want to see naked pictures of women, they are all over the Internet without having to deceive people to get them.
Edited: Doesn't make you a bad person. You're young and being curious is human nature. You'll get further in life though if you are straight up from the start.
2007-01-20 18:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No I've never done that before. You are out of your mind if you think it's a good idea to tell those girls about what you did. Do NOT create any drama with other people because you have guilty feelings and want to feel better by getting rid of an obsessive thought. It's most likely going to upset them and you will look like a complete weirdo. All that matters now is that you know what you did wasn't really 'right' and that you aren't going to do it again. When you feel the need to apologize for something, you are not supposed to do it if it could cause a problem for another person or hurt them in any way. These girls don't know what you did and do not need to find out since it would only freak them out.
2007-01-20 18:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pico 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You aren't objective enough to realize how 15 yrs old that was. Let it go, most of us did some stupid things when we were 15. I did. Do your Karma some good and look out for other girls. Late teen girls are such trouble magnets, your body is a womans, and every guy around can't get past the way you look, smell, and sound.
Be the alert one who keeps an eye out for the trouble that will constantly try to find your friends..., it'll be your way of making up for past mistakes as long as this hangs over your head and keeps you from serenity.
Karma is a good way of being a better person, and if those who made us aware of the karma concept are right, well..., we'll be ahead of the power curve!
But you should stop beating yourself up about things that you did years ago, you are growing up too fast to stay tied to the mistakes of your distant past. Don't prey on others, or let your friends be preyed on... that's how you regain your self respect kiddo.
Stay alert, and sober around strangers... live strong young one.
2007-01-20 19:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by justacarguy.blogspot.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do deserve friends. You are not a bad person at all. Maybe your ACTIONS were not very wise, but that does not make you so terrible as you think. If it were me, I would definitely NOT tell the people I did it to! The reason is because if you do that, you will hurt them, see? So, I would not tell anybody, and be SURE to never do it again in the future. Learn from it. Don't cause more harm by announcing your dirty deed, and don't beat yourself up over it. Everyone makes mistakes. It's what you learn from them and do different in the FUTURE that matters. God bless, and good luck. I hope this helps calm your situation.
2007-01-20 18:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Carhop3000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never did anything like that.
Maybe you should tell her so you won't have to worry about it.
You never know it might not go as bad as you think.
It sounds like you were just going through a confusing phase, that is over, so just put it behind you.
Everyone goes through some kind of confusing phase, its different for everyone.
2007-01-20 19:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy© ® ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm proud of you because you felt guilty for deceiving others for your own will and gain (purpose). And now you feel remorse. That tells me you are on the
way to learning how to become a fine young woman and person. Also the
fact that you do not want to do that again. Thanks, Greg
2007-01-20 20:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound that bad. Sounds like you could be a great actor if you chose to be! Dont tell any of them, just destroy any photos that could get you in trouble. You sound like a really fun person to know!
2007-01-20 18:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me your guilt is eating you alive, we have all done things that were not so proud of, no one is guilt free, its a lesson in life you learnt. don't be so hard on your self. it was curiosity and now its done, you do regret it. so its over.
2007-01-20 18:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I've never done that. I have chatted with lesbians like I was one to see what they talk about. That's it. I'm not a lesbian or bi.
2007-01-20 18:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ndpndnt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if noone knows it was you , drop it and dont say a word , you didnt harm anyone and didnt take inappropiate pics . but if you did and someone knows , weigh your options and decide whats the best route to take. good luck ..........
2007-01-20 18:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by sindi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋