i am upset because my best friend broke our friendship over a boy. I dont know what to do because i am sad . She would always lie to me and thought it was funny.What should I do??
2007-01-20 17:49:41 · 26 answers · asked by tiffycrazy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
like when she would like a guy , she would think that i would steal him from her. when i wouldnt.
2007-01-20 17:59:15 · update #1
we both love horses. and its hard to let at best friend go because i have been friends with her for a long time. it is so hard to feel this way and its hard to make new friends esspecially knowing that u had a friend but they arent. I am a type of person who is shy.
2007-01-20 18:03:34 · update #2
I cheat on my boyfriend with my friends guys all the time. You shouldn't take it so personally. It's just a fact of life.
2007-01-20 18:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by yousuck2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that "best friend" screwed you up really bad. If she knows she's hurting you but still does it anyway than she doesn't deserve you as a friend. If she's really a mean friend, pick yourself up and don't let her see that you can't move on without her. The sadness will soon pass and you should talk to her about what to do with your friendship. Either she apologise or go find a new friend.
2007-01-21 01:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by twentyfour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on because it does not seem like she was your best friend. A best friend would never pick a boy over the friendship...men come and men go but best friends are suppose to be like blood...thick. Move on and find a new best friend who will truly be your best friend. I know you are sad right now, but better learn the truth about a person sooner than later.
2007-01-21 01:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by BritLdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be hard losing a best friend over a boy, is she really your friend? She had lied to you because she thought it was funny but if you really miss her talk to her and tell her about all the good times. Tell her that you were there for her through hard times when the boy hasn't. Remind her of all the things you have in common! It's not fair to you just talk to her it always helps trust me!
2007-01-28 19:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by bleedgreen108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes especially in our school days we realize who is a real friend and who isnt. many people u think are close to you arent. i lost a so called best friend in 10th grade. it was a good thing in the long run she was no good. a friend wouldnt leave the friendship for a boy, cut ur losses and you have 2 grow from it. u will be ok
2007-01-21 01:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by charli_red1218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to this because I have been in this situation in the past. I had a long talk with my friend. We got a lot of things off our chests and became better friends because of it. It takes a lot of courage to do. I am really glad I did it because I lost that friend about 11 years ago. I miss her and I know that I would not have had as many good memories with her if we never had that heart to heart.
2007-01-28 00:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about your friend...she is jealous of you and that is an ugly thing. My friend was this way too! Always accusing me of taking the guys she liked...yeah right! Don't worry about it, your going to have to make new friends whether you like it or not. I did and it wasn't easy but after seeing all the drama she was going through with her friends I'm glad I did. Whats funny is that 2yrs later she came up to me and apologized for everything she said about me...that was already too late. I forgave her but she ruined a beautiful friendship we had over JEALOUSY. This a sign to move on and make better friends, don't put up with her drama.
2007-01-21 02:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a deep breath in and think is she really my best friend if she was why would she end our friendship over a boy friends are meant to stick together..and what has she ever done for you and lying to you please no friend should lie to one another dont be sad because your living and learning everything in this life for you not anyone else do really think you need her bringing you down think seriously
2007-01-28 08:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the record, she wasn't your friend to begin with~
just forget her...she isn't a friend!
A real friend wouldn't end a friendship over a boy...
It may take a while for you to find a new friend, but
you need to get over it. I think she already broken your
friendship so it's not your fault.
I believe you can still find friends.
Make an effort to be friendly ^^,
Your life won't end because of her.
2007-01-28 03:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the same person as you im shy too but you have to stop being shy and be what you can be if she lie and stuff i think tat u shud juz let it go and try to find a new bestfren bcuz bestfren isnt all about this frens shudnt lie to each other
2007-01-27 21:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by xMemoryx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋