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2007-01-20 17:49:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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Yes I have felt like commiting suicide before. I was ashamed of myself and it seemed like i couldn't look at myself in the mirror. I thought I was fat and could never seem to live up to my mothers expectations. I felt that there was no point in living if I couldn't stand myself and my mom couldn't stand me either. My dad bailed on us when i was little and so I thought it must be a reason for him not to want me there soe why would anyone else? I went through these feelings for a whole 2 or 3 years of my life and I'm so glad that I didn't do it. God helped me through by sending down angels in the form of my friends and my boyfriend, if it had not been for them who knows if I would still be here?

2007-01-20 17:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by noella. 2 · 1 0

Yes.
I grew up in the foster care environment, which is a more business oriented environment than supportive. I was simply a source of dollars for the many businesses (or so-called non-profits) that provided care to me. Because of the business aspect of these environments, administrators inevidably had to focus more on filling beds to get money than on providing customized care. Because I never got the care that I yearned for and was always treated like a dollar figure and striped of freedom, I always felt alone and trapped. The environment was truly fatalistic, as my life and decisions were always in the hands of other people who never reallly empathized with me. I didn't have parents, I had a court system (judge, social worker, group home, etc.) that told me what to do, where I would live, and everything else. WIth no freedom to live my life to my greatest potential, what is the point of living?

What got me through was recognizing that although there was crap today, there was tomorrow to live for. I developed a quote to succinctly explain to people how I felt, "Expect the worst, but hope for the best." Today, now that I am nineteen, away from the fatalistic environments, free to make my own decisions, and able to live the determined life I always wanted, I "work for the best and accept nothing less."

I know that if I did not see today available yeaterday, I would have committed suicide. My recommendation to you is to look at tomorrow and keep in mind that today is only temporary.

2007-01-20 18:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by zgm 3 · 0 0

i'm a 14 12 months old woman. i've got self assurance the comparable, i truly want a infant, like so badly my coronary heart truly hurts whilst i think of approximately it (yet permit's no longer get into that one, i'm going to probably get adequate thumbs down as that's) and none of my acquaintances understand the way i've got self assurance and below no circumstances am I going to talk to my family members approximately it, no longer yet a minimum of... and various of human beings on right here merely look down their nostril at me and don't understand what it extremely is like the two, they simply decide me till now reading the entire element and not even attempt to sympathise or empathise. I cope by skill of preserving busy with college artwork or music or on right here...

2016-11-25 23:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by wilczynski 4 · 0 0

Ya,but i did not have the courage. I luv the things around me so much dat i back off. u should know dat suicide is not a solution to things. u would not want people to think of u as a coward. fight back. and if u are frustrated,do not bottle it inside you. keep urself active by analysing ur problems and their solutions. Failure- don't worry, u r not the only 1, are u? work harder. do things dat make u feel happy. Search for happiness. do not wait for it to find u.

Hope this helped u. Kisses n Hugs

2007-01-20 18:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by darsh_unitygurl 1 · 0 0

I believe when I was much younger I did feel this way. Peer pressure can be very threatening to someone who is young. The best way to handle things like this is think about it, sleep on it, and believe it or not, the answer comes to you that it just is not worth it.

2007-01-20 17:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by Loraine H 2 · 0 0

when i lived too far from home and away from family, i felt so depressed that i was day dreaming of going to the bridge and jumping off, it ran threw my head a few times then one day i realized what i was doing was not right, i seen my doctor and he told me i was very depressed and keeping to myself did not help anything, and that it had a lot to do with loneliness i moved back home and even my migraines tapered off, i cant speak for anyone else"s thoughts, except to say talk to someone and let them know anyone just don't keep it inside...........please

2007-01-20 18:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 0 0

A friend of mine once asked, "How can anyone commit suicide in a world where there are toasted bacon lettuce and tomato sandwiches!" I think of that sometimes. So far there has always been something I'd rather do than kill myself.

2007-01-20 18:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Arlosmom 2 · 0 0

I used to cut my arms up and I over dosed on pills, and drank Clorox when I was a teen, yes I was locked up twice for it, those day are past me now, thank God, I regret ever doing it, I put my mother though hell, I still tell her I'm sorry for all I put her though.

2007-01-20 17:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Robin W 4 · 0 0

No, I've never felt like committing suicide. That's a permanent solution to any of life's temporary problems, in my opinion.

2007-01-20 17:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by K 6 · 0 0

i have. and for me it was mostly MAJOR depression. i used to swallow a lot of pills and cut myself. i got help though, and now I'm A LOT better. i mostly did all that because i have 3 different types of issues (major OCD,bipolar, and horrible acne) i got help with all three and I'm a total different person. if it weren't for my husband who knows where id be right now.... this helps me feel a little better about myself by sharing my thoughts with some other people....

2007-01-20 17:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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