My wife seemed to have a double standard life.?

Question

Married for two years and I was full of of love with my wife. Appenrantly my wife is very close to a lady friend and expressed a lot about herself. Her friend could not take it any more and called me the details: A cousin who is staying with us is having an affair with my wife. We were planning a family and her good friend asked what if you get pregnant to your husband, she simply replied " well he will never know it's my cousins child." For what the friend has told me is so bazaar but she did tell me another story which is true and could only have been told by my wife to her. It's terrible to accept as the contrast from such a love has now turned into bitterness and putting our marriage onto rocks. My wife has told me a year ago that she had a previous 2 year affair before I met her. It is really heart breaking.

My wife son has also seen the two arm in arm walking on the beach. I called her son and he said yes the looked like lovers.

CORRECTED AS: My friends son has also seen the two arm in arm walking on the beach. I called her son and he said yes the looked like lovers.

Answer 1

It sure sounds like she is cheating I suggust u get a laywer & file 4 divorce YESTERDAY!! If she says she's pregnant DEMAND a patrnity test!! Sorry ur wife did this!! I guess she des not love u as much as she thought she did!! Y get married in the 1st place if she KNEW she WOULD B UNFAITHFUL!! GOOD-LUCK!!

Answer 2

Oh my F'n F dude, you simply defined my final two exs. They might do not anything and up to I attempted, running 7 days per week, taking good care of our baby, doing all of the cooking and cleansing, I nonetheless might now not do whatever proper. I eneded up being used up and thrown away. (became out to be an excessively well factor, My spouse is excessive well to me) You are a well man, you're the type of man that DBs will take competencies of. But there are a host of ladies available in the market who might like to be with you, however when you desire to paintings in this dating you ought to positioned your foot down. If she cant get out of her possess manner with out you, she's going to take you down together with her. Try this only for the hell of it, come house from paintings a few day and inform her you think quite ill and spot if she's going to deal with you as well as you deal with her. If she doesnt unfortunatly you have got to permit her cross, in any other case she's going to run you proper into the bottom and you probably have not anything left to deliver she's going to release you. I quite want you the high-quality, I had been there and I know the way you think.

Answer 3

How awful for you- my heart goes out. However, if this is true and your wife is as you describe her, I would cut my loses and get the f*ck outta Dodge before anything worse happens-- such as a poor child.

Answer 4

A paternity / DNA test will indeed accurately indicate the father.
If Cousin is father, it will accurately & easily point to him...
Do some research or talk to your Doctor about it....
Tell your wife that you are going to have baby DNA tested
after it is born and it better be yours...

Answer 5

Get your self together,get yourself a lawyer and get yourself out of there.No sense in making things worse than what it is now.Get a divorce from her and move along.Oh ya get yourself some counseling if you need it.

Answer 6

sorry to say, it is going to hurt, but you have to move on, but first tell your wife that she just screwed up the best thing in her life and she'll be sorry when your gone

Answer 7

i'd verify and then end it and move on, once a cheater always a cheater.