I really like this guy I met 5 weeks ago. At the time he was spilt up with his girl. Now there back together, and I'm pregnant with his child. What do I do? He also wants to have this baby.
2007-01-20 17:03:50 · 9 answers · asked by green2heather 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The thing that is best is the dad want the baby as well (this should not be a problem when it comes time for him to do his fatherly duties). I believe as Long as you and the dad have good communication and both act like adults (because that is the situation that your in). You have to be strong and understand that he and his gfriend is together and there will be times when she does not want him to be with you as any gfriend would. Stand your ground I would throw out there to him that you like him a lot let him figure this out (he will). I hope that you have a support system in place pregnancy is very strange in a very beautiful way. Your hormones might explode from wanting sex and more sex then a gain it might be mild for you. Let him know that you are going to need his support more then he might think, good luck to you and your new baby,mommie (smile)
2007-01-20 17:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it's great he wants to be there for the baby. If you're gonna keep the baby keep in mind that the baby is top prioity! Make sure you and him have some type of understanding. Don't have high hopes of him leaving that girl for you. I learned this the hard way. I felt like i could do it on my own and then realized i needed my family more then ever. you need support more then any thing right now. so if you are gonna have this baby. seek support from friends, family, everybody. So if the guy acts a fool like mine did. you'll still have your friends and family to fall back on.
2007-01-21 01:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i know exactly how you feel, me and this guy had sex when he was split up with his girlfriend and i ended up getting pregnant, they are back together now and she and him both know im pregnant but he doesnt want anything to do with my son now, hes paying child support and that is it, the best thing you can do is talk to him about it and see if he wants to be in the baby's life or if hes going to pay child support, good luck :)
2007-01-21 01:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by CO mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to keep the baby, just get ready to be a single-mom. Don't go into this with false hopes of him leaving his girl to be with you and the baby. This is one of the instances where you have to learn from your mistakes. So let's hope that you have learned something from this.
2007-01-21 01:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Keetta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a wonderful thing that he also wants to have the baby. i think you both should let his girlfriend know if she doesnt already know. If you want to be with the guy talk to him about it, but don't force it otherwise it can be unnessecary stress on you and your unborn baby.
2007-01-21 01:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not want to be in your shoes. I believe that ultimately it is your decision. There are so many factors involved here that I don't really see how anyone can answer this for you. You will really have to weigh all of your options.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 01:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by thoughts_in_a_blender 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should give the baby his last name so he will have to pay child support.
2007-01-21 01:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready to be a single mom.
2007-01-21 01:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you should have thought about this before you two did the nasty. now you are both in trouble, have a fun time with that
2007-01-21 01:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by 7 Words You Can't Say On T.V 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋