I'm having lots of problems right now, For the pass week, my ex has visitation with his daughter, But he been calling the police on the pick up & drop off, He is telling them that he wants peacful, because suppose me & my family are harassing him and threating him, But is NOT true, I don't even talk to him during the exchange, So on wed night the last officer told him he been calling to much the police its better he doesn't show up for 2 weeks to stay away,from my home intil he goes back to court to fix this problem if is true, So he didn't listen the officer, So now he is calling my family with harassments and threats, and when he drops off the baby, He just waiting to provotes problems, I don't know what to do anymore the police tell me to go to court, But in the meanwhile what? My neighbor and family are all seeing this,I'm getting worried and nervous he was very abuse during the marriage and now again. He is crazy, and also,he is not doing it along,His Mom& family are doing it 2.
2007-01-20 16:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bust a cap in his A S S !!!
No just kidding, it sounds like he is jealous and wants attention. He will probably get tired if he gets no reaction. He might even stop coming to get the baby. That would be a good thing it sounds like. The baby does not need to have all that drama and listen to bad stuff about each other. The world is crazy enough without the people who are suppose to love them dealing more crap!
2007-01-20 16:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that will cause harm to your daughter, yourself or your family. Say nothing to him. If he was abusive then, he'll be abusive now as well.
Contact your attorney or get one from legal aid. Let them know what he's doing and ask if you need a restraining order.
Be sure when the exchange of your daughter takes place that it is in a public area...like a populated park or shopping mall. Then, he won't cause a scene or hurt you because of the witnesses.
Next, contact a hotline or help group for women with abusive partners. There are many free services for women in this situation. You might try your local hospital for information as well.
Next, contact a therapist or counselor. They will help you overcome what he's doing to you so that you are stronger and better for your daughter.
Good luck. Many of us have overcome similar situations. We're all sorry you're in it and hope you find the assistance you need.
2007-01-20 16:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently there are services available that can act as go-betweens, & facilitate the visitation for you & your husband instead of the police. I am sure the cops have better things to do than to keep you, & your husband under control.
Check with either your lawyer, the courts, or family services. They may be able to find an independant service that will allow your husband, & you a way of dropping off your daughter in such a way that you, & your husband don't have to come into contact with each other. You will have to pay for it, but I am sure it will be worth it for you, & your child.
2007-01-20 16:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a protection order against him & tell the judge who ordered visitation what he is doing, document evrything & ask the neigbors who you talk to will they be witnesses for you in court. Men like that are controll freaks & need help. You need to do some research to see hwt you can do. Call & talk to the judge who ordered visitation & see waht to do. Do you have a lawyer? If not call around & get one . He sounds Pyscotic. Get an answering machine & let it record him & play the threats to the police, & save then for court. He's trouble
2007-01-20 16:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order and make him pick up the child at a neutral place like the police station.
It sounds like the police have him figured out.
2007-01-20 16:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONSULT YOUR LAWYER. Tape record or video any threats. Write down every date and time that he does anything threatening. Have your family do the same. Get a restraining order if necessary. Even if you need to borrow money to do it, consult your lawyer as soon as possible!!!
2007-01-20 16:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by cakekweeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. do now no longer pay interest to Laney because of the fact it may harm your ex's attractiveness. somewhat of springing up a great fuss over step mom and dad/step grandparents, how approximately telling the ex how the two your daughter and you experience with connection with the situation. i in my opinion could desire to now no longer stay with out my youthful ones, so in case you attempt to alter the custody contract and you on the instant can no longer, i propose you progression closer on your daughter. Your daughter will ***** and dislike the stepmother because of the fact she feels that she took over her father. i understand...my stepdaughter hates me and that i do each and each little element for her. do now no longer take your daughter from her father because of the fact of her jealousy. in case you have faith she's in genuine possibility, it extremely is as quickly as you attempt against for custody yet that could now no longer the case.
2016-11-25 23:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE SOMEONE FROM YOUR FAMILY SECRETLY VIDEO TAPE THIS WHEN HE DOES THIS. THEN BRING IT TO COURT WITH YOU IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS.
2007-01-20 16:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by KAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex is a dick tell the cops!
2007-01-20 16:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by ms_peaceloverr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋