I'm about to get married in a few months and i'm a virgin as is my fiance. We are waiting to get married to have sex. I'm kind of concerned....you know...with things like, will it hurt?, and everything you experience the first time....
2007-01-20 16:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by ......... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"sex hurts depending on the person. sex is very healthy and normal, its also an amazing workout."
This is an answer that you gave to someone else's "does it hurt" question. Why are you asking a question that you've already answered.
2007-01-20 16:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by smm1974 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I had the same fears you did and I used to have visions of me screaming, crying and carrying on because I couldn't take the pain. A little mellow dramatic, I know, but I truly didn't know what to expect.
I hate to sound cheesy but my first time was truly magical. He knew I was a virgin and was kind and gentle and patient. It didn't hurt nearly as bad as I thought it would at the time. I was really sore the next day, but nothing a couple of Tylenol couldn't tackle.
Good luck to you and good for you for waiting until you're married.
2007-01-21 00:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
congrats on your wedding and also on both you and your other for being virigins. that is very rare this days. just make sure that when the time comes that it is something that you are both ready to do. dont do it if you are not ready. and if you feel like you are ready and still nervous well just remember to stay calm and keep your musles relaxed. dont be tense cuz then it will hurt.
2007-01-21 00:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by azeris23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i totally think its cool to be a virgin at marrige... i love that
but with society i dont think that will be the case for my husband and i :(
but it will hurt if your arent relaxed
so be relaxed and do it if you want to
and congrads on your wedding
you will have so much fun
2007-01-21 01:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by summersweetheart_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋