I have this friend that has been my friend ever since 3rd grade. The one thing is when i tell her i like her she makes up lies saying that that likes her, not me. Also my grandpa gave me a very special watch ans she stole it. Three years later she gave it back to me. What should i do about her?
2007-01-20 16:04:13 · 12 answers · asked by Limdo T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alas, everyone suffers this problem eventually. You have to be nice to her (u may hate it but its the right thing to do) but tell her when she is annoying. Confront her about the lies and the stealing. You need to make ur friendship work.
2007-01-20 16:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Music~Is~Life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A:few negative things can't make all things bad,no one's perfect, forgiveness is very important almsdeed which we should never forget,forgive all for everyone's forgivable and forget all bad things happened between you and your friend for all of them are forgettable ,friend is one of the best things you can have in your life, be grateful!
B:you don't regard anyone as a friend if one doesn't regard you as a friend,show no mercy to ppl who betrayed you since they showed no mercy when they betraiy you,there's an old chinese saying goes:if you treat your enemy as a friend,how will you treat your friend?if a friend did terrible things to you just do your revenge or whatever you will,follow your sense of what you feel,don't be a craven
now it's up to you
2007-01-20 17:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend might need a friend, she might be going through a hard time and she might need someone to talk to. It's never good to drop friends unless you have to. Just keep hanging in there and keep being her friend. But if you really can't stand her and you want to drop her then slowly start hanging out with other people.
2007-01-20 16:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by nathan920ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be jealous of you or lack confidence in herself but the only thing you can do is to heop her build up her own confidence or tey to avoid her as much as you can.
2007-01-20 16:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your responsibility to be this person's only friend. Stop being available to her. She'll eventually take the hint.
2007-01-20 16:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her this question, I think she will get the hint.....just come right out and tell her you don't want to be her friend anymore.
2007-01-20 16:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by deb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. She obviously has problems. If she steals from you and lies from you she's not a real friend. IDK why you were even her friend in the first place. If she has no friends, its not ur problem, its hers. So don't worry about her and move on...
2007-01-20 16:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sumara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend, and I believe that she is jealous of you. Slowly leave her alone and eventually you will get use to her not being around.
2007-01-20 16:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Keyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not call her a friend.
Friends do not steal from each other.
Good Luck
2007-01-20 16:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to pretend to like her especially if she steals from you.
2007-01-20 16:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋