I have a guy friend who I've known since 3rd grade. He knows all my secrets. We always have a good time together. Everytime I see him, I smile and he smiles back. We rarely talk now due to our classes being different but when we talk in the hall, my other friends (girls) say "Aww." One time my friend told me to ask him out. She also said that me and my best friend were meant to be together. Other times, people I don't know or do know say, "You and so-and-so should go out." Guys close to him say the same. I find myself getting jealous when he's talking to other girls. Once, I thought I was in love with him. I'd hate to ruin our friendship.
In 6th grade, we were sitting together at lunch and my hand rubbed his thigh for some reason. He looked shocked and I removed my hand after laughing nervously. The same day, this guy asked my friend the definition of the word destiny and when my friend answered the guy said, "Wrong, destiny is what you and Brittany are going to spend together."
2007-01-20 15:57:45 · 3 answers · asked by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also, in 6th grade, we argued about the confederate flag. I said it was racist and he disagreed. We ended our friendship for 5 minutes until he apologized and made me laugh because we were being stupid.
In 7th grade, he'd always trip me up, make me laugh and talk to me from across the classroom. He wrote a poem about me in English class and I did the same for him. People said "Aww." when he read that he thought I was an angel. I was really honored and my heart started beating loudly.
This year, we were waiting for our rides afterschool and he came up to me and put his arm on my shoulder. I was really happy about that. I realized that I missed his companionship.
2007-01-20 16:05:40 · update #1
Another friend of mine went up to him asked him if he would say yes if I asked him out and he said probably not. For a while after that things were strange between us and we never talked about me possibly having a crush on him.
2007-01-20 16:10:26 · update #2
I had a sex dream about him and when I woke up I felt disgusted with myself. I contemplated telling him about it then saying that I would be okay if he hated me because of what I did but I didn't. It was like no other dream I've had like that.
2007-01-20 16:26:30 · update #3
Love is a lot more than a crush, and it sounds as if you have exactly that. Don't base whether you want to be with someone on what your friends say or think. If you have to question in the least whether or not you love someone, you don't. Love is knowing that another person completes you. That they have your heart, and they always will. That you could never see yourself with anyone but them, and you put their happiness above even your own. So I would say that you like this guy - and perhaps one day, it could turn into love, with time and care. Just be careful - I've tried the dating the best friend scenario several times... every time we break up it dramatically weakens our friendships, even killed a few. Good luck!
2007-01-20 16:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sweet.
Tease him like, "Gosh I'm like in love with you"
See the reaction. He might either laugh along thinking its your typical daily joke. OR, he might simply agree in a shy way.
2007-01-21 00:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by icerux23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with him because he wont like you as friend after you break up!
2007-01-21 00:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋