I have had 12 or more Mini-Strokes and My wife is an alcoholic. Every small job I earn a penny on goes to keep my elder Daughter in the lifestyle she is desirous of. The other Daughter is an abusive Thief so nothing more to say there. Should I sue? I know the exact figures or should the cops get involved?
2007-01-20 15:46:14 · 23 answers · asked by jaskoran 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what are you waiting for the big one do it man before it's too late
2007-01-20 15:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew1968 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take this the wrong way but do you want an early grave...first you dont sound like your family respect you....first get rid of the wife...you have reason she is a drunk....second your children depending on their age kick them out the house serious they may not respect you for it but it will teach them to go stand on their own feet and they might respect you for that in future and if they dont what are you losing as they dont respect you right now anyway...
i feel for you....ask them to leave first if they dont contact the police to ask them to leave then contact a lawyer but hey the lawyer i will also take the p*ss and take the other penny so think of a wise way around this and dont let it get you down email me if you need a friend
take care and sorry about your health
2007-01-20 16:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by MissTee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still living with these people ??? if you know for sure they're stealing, then yes get the cops involved. Do you have other family that can help you ???
Get the state involved in helping you...
Good luck !!!
2007-01-20 15:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call the shots.. Be assertive and start living your own life. Don't make it easy for them. It is not necessary to get legally involved just change your pattern of family management
2007-01-20 20:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Professor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don,t do any jobs, small or otherwise,tell them to get off their butts and earn their own money, be a man and stand up for youself!!!!
If you can prove theft call the police NOW.
2007-01-20 15:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make 'em get jobs and if your daughter plays up again send her to brat camp as for your wife you should take her to AA meetings and be strict but supportive while she's getting help
2007-01-20 16:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Amy H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to hand over money to your adult children.
Speak to them directly and tell them that it must stop or you will (sadly) have no alternative but to go the police.
Thebest outcome would be for them to listen and change. If not,you will have to take action.
It may well help also if you linked up with Al-anon
2007-01-20 19:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not fair I wouldnt give them s**t. Try to sue, run away or sumthing. Take it to court and keep documentation. Just because your a man doesn't mean you have to be the bread winner
2007-01-20 15:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's stealing from you and you already give her what she wants then show her the consequences of stealing call the police and let them deal with her because if you don't make that step and do something I'm afraid it's only gonna get worse and if she's stealing from you God only knows who else she's stealing from.
2007-01-20 16:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should sue them they have no right to take from you that
not there, as for the oldest one, you dont owe her a lifestyle you
gave her life and took care of her, she need to stand on her own
feet. yes get the law on this before it too late. until then get someone you trust to deal with themoney until you get a handle
on this.
2007-01-20 15:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police, you need to be crule to be kind. I know how hard this will be for you but really you need to do it, I would say there are no other options. It will help them in the long run. Good luck
2007-01-20 22:14:57 · answer #11 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋