Lately my life has been very boring and pathetic! I dont wanna be bothered. I am very queit and sad. It hurts others around me and everyone knows! My friends say I need a boyfriend but do I really? What do I need?
2007-01-20 15:26:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Screw boyfriends! sometime they can make it worse! Just Be yourself get your self esteem back up , pamper yourself , take a couple of days off and forget about your problems maybe get a nice relaxing full body massage, but whatever you do dont do it by using drugs or cutting yourself or any self destructive way it does NOT work! (trust me i should know first hand)
2007-01-20 15:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by elizacandle 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need a hobby. You may also need to talk to someone. You're probably just in a rut and need a change of scenery. If you don't have a huge need for money, try volunteering at a hospital. You would get great rewards from sitting and reading to a sick child or elderly person. It also makes you realize you are not so bad off. All it takes is a really good look around you to realize what you have may not be as bad as you currently think they are. If that doesn't help, talking to a counselor may help. There is alot of medicine now for depression. But I would suggest doing something. Don't let this get worse..and it may.. so keep on top of how you are feeling and do something good for yourself. Good luck!!!
2007-01-20 15:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by kris_mom_of_4_girls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you been diagnosed with Depression? Some people get S.A.D. (Seasonal Affected Disorder) during the Winter.
I have it and I'm on medication right now...which helps.
Sometimes life is like walking through mud, but if you can get out for a little bit each day, it certainly helps your loneliness.
Bookstores and Movies are the best, because you are around people and interaction is your option. Who knows? Maybe someone at the bookstore or theater is feeling the same way you are...
Good luck...you are not alone.
2007-01-20 15:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Krisma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Vitamins, kiddo. And lots of exercise. Make yourself get out in the fresh air and play! Take a bicycle ride or go play volleyball or tennis or go for a hike. Maybe meet some new people.
If there is something that started all of this then pinpoint that and work through it in your own mind. Meditate and find some silence within and the answers will come to you.
2007-01-20 15:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by O Wise One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly sound depressed. A couple of people who answered mentioned it and I agree. It could be the temporary kind (as someone mentioned - S.A.D. or Seasonal Affected Disorder).
It doesn't hurt to try some Anti-Depressants...maybe just through the Winter?
I hope you start feeling better! Here's a SMILE for you! : )
2007-01-24 06:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to be like you could be slipping into a depression. Have you ever had these feelings before? I don't think a boyfriend will help anything when you don't feel like being around people. In my expierence having a boyfriend is more like a chore of having to get ready, leave the house, ect. Maybe its time to visit your doctor to have a checkup and explain whats going on. You never know, it could help.
2007-01-20 15:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by xxPiinkCivic 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ya it is a very bad thing that u r always sad so than what u need is a good friend who can care u than u can get out of the lonliness only by having friends.just do as ia m when i am bored i just go to my frnds home or i call them to myn home.so plz find a better friend for u.ok
2007-01-20 15:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by ambresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never happiness in anther person. to find happiness you need go things straiten things out in your own life. you be blue or you could be depressed that is for trained specialist to detriment. if i where you I'd talk to a professional they can help you work threw this. i betting there is more to this story then what is stated. good luck in your journey
2007-01-20 15:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by lady_jane_az 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need an anti-depressant...That's what I needed and I'm much better. Your friends don't know what they are talking about. I know they are trying to help, but a man should never make you change as drastically as they think you would.
2007-01-20 15:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sunds like what you need is a distraction from your problems. Try getting into some hobby you've always wanted to try.
2007-01-20 15:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋