2007-01-20 14:19:16 · 7 answers · asked by purple_lady 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
lately, i feel like im dependent to my bf to make me happy.
this past few days he seems to get rid of me, maybe he thinks im overpossesive.
we're having a long distance relationship and i dont think things are going better. this is difficult.
i just want to know how to get rid of this negative feeling without letting go my dignity.
2007-01-20 14:30:09 · update #1
You know the old adage: "If you love something, set it free...if it comes back to you, it is yours...if it doesn't, it was never yours..."? That's exactly what you must do. I'm not saying break up with him, but let it go for now. Take a deep breath and let it go. Try not to control the situation any longer. Move on with your life. See your friends, do other things without him. DON'T call him or try to make plans with him. Let your silence speak volumes. If he's still interested, he'll be calling you, wondering where you've gone. Then you can talk this out and find out where you really stand. Good luck.
2007-01-20 14:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by oscpressgirl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and medication.
Seriously though, talking to someone might not hurt. I had a similar situation, but I know (and knew then) that I was depressed before that, and...it wasn't a healthy relationship on either end. Hopefully that's not the case with you, but if things are getting more difficult, it coulnd't hurt to talk to someone.
2007-01-20 22:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab a bible, and read the book of Job. You think you have problems... and reasons to be broken hearted or depressed... take a look at what he went through! I'm not trying to take away from what you're experiencing, but if you read that... you'll see how your problems will likely pale in comparison. God bless!!!
2007-01-20 22:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by igiveall2002 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
ICE CREAM A
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write songs about ur feelings
2007-01-20 22:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i will tell you when the pain is gone and the depression will go when the grief stage is over
2007-01-20 22:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by jane h 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your a chick you look good in your avatar so get laid have fun meet lots of guys let them buy you stuff take you places and live it up .
2007-01-20 22:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
by telling yourself I AM STUPID,I AM STUPID, I AM STUPID then if you accept your stupid then you will be free from your guilty feeling or loser syndrome psychosis disorder okay
2007-01-20 23:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋