I don't really get erections around girls but I do get them around guy's. When I look at a video with two girls making out with each other my penis grows a little not much ( and I'm not even touching my penis or forcing it to grow) but when I see two guys kissing I get hard. I get hard when I look at guys most of the time. I am 17 years old almost 18. Do you think I'm gay or bi and have any guys out there delt with the same problem? I never really had much of erection around girls in my life, do you think some day that may change or once I get a little older I may never be interested in girls? I'm confused about this.
2007-01-20 14:19:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You say, "when I'm watching," but you never mention what YOUR THINKING! Being gay is more than just getting erections, its about who you dream and fantasize about, and who you want to LOVE. When you answer those questions, you will have your answer. And don't feel like your fate is sealed, sexuality is fluid and sometimes changeable for SOME people. I'm just not one of those people.
2007-01-20 14:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would say there is a good chance you are gay but only you know for sure. I think everyone has at one point or the other been attracted to someone of the same sex.
If you are not interested in starting a relationship with a same sex person but are with an opposite sex person, I would say that you just need to wait until the right person comes along. By no means label yourself based upon erections. Label yourself based upon emotions.
2007-01-20 22:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are still young and I would not judge your sexuality based on video arousal. Why don't you take a girl you find attractive on a date, let things progress and see if you have the ability to feel very sexual with a female. Try to avoid porn as it really ruins healthy sexuality. If you can't feel stimulated by a woman then accept you are gay and go forward with that. It is a hard road though, eventhough we have made progress in that area because you will be different from most, so for this reason I hope you try to avoid porn and end up with the popular sexual orientation. Good luck either way though.
2007-01-20 22:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What ever the case may be it sounds like boys make you feel good more than women. So go for who please you the most. This is what make you blooming. There is no problem to switch at anytime in the future and experience make perfect. If you are trying to change your desires you are loosing your time. This life belongs to you so do everything you can with all respect and with manner. You will be a real winner.
2007-01-20 23:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quite
2007-01-21 13:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little attraction to the same sex I was told was normal during the teenage years but it seems to me that you are developing homosexual tendencies due to the fact that you genital gets aroused around males.
I don't think these feelings will go away, you might become bisexual if the future if you develop more physical attraction to girls but for now, it seems that you are gay.
If you don't wanna be gay, I suggest getting counselling and prayer (that is if you believe in divine intervention).
Hope this was of some help to you!
2007-01-20 22:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kevon W 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
come on do you really have to ask this question? I mean I know at 17 there is a lot of confusion but when you really look at the facts its right there in front of your nose...you are gunna be whatever you want to be...and what ever floats you boat is ok :)
2007-01-20 22:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Justwonderin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're really into guys, but still like girls a little bit too, so I would say you're bi not gay.
2007-01-20 22:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
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2007-01-20 22:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It doesn't sound like you are confused. You know what gender turns you on and what gender doesn't. If you're gay, you're gay. Just remember that no one can tell you who you are especially Internet junkies on Yahoo!Answers.
Be who you are, date who you want and stop trying to label it.
2007-01-20 22:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by B 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋