What can i do to improve my overall self to become more liked and popular?

Question

im sorta popular but not much and people say dont worry about being popular-- im not worried about it i just feel i culd be more well liked in school and wanna kno how i want to kno also how i can improve my looks or nething to get more girls to notice me im not ugly or nething (nor conceited) sounds gay but i already go tanning haha, i lift and keep in good shape and what else can i do to improve my looks and my overall self i got a good personality and everything so what else?

Answer 1

Join your local gym and use the treadmills, ellipticals, bikes, the weights (differs on types and ages for usage of types), eat better, get more into different types of music and know a lot of band names so you can add to a conversation (same goes with movies, tv, and all that crap), observe how the preps (the popular or "cool" kids) act, and try to be mixture of yourself, and them, don't do anything gross (like fart or burp), don't hang out with uncool people (nerds, geeks, emos and [just maybe] goths might be ok), get really good grades (they will like you a lot when they can copy your homework, IM and e-mail all your friends (since the chances are that most of them do that) using abbreviations like lol, ttyl, omg, and others, get a preppy haircut, join a sports team (football is the best one for this), have a good tan (optional, but girls like a good tan [not too or little tan]), do not smoke (only 1/4 of the population does it now, it is no longer cool), never get wasted (that way, you will be able to have good judgement), just drink a little at parties, learn to play the guitar (and a little bit of piano on the side), the best one would be an acoustic (but learn electric too), learn how to speak like black people (this will come in handy at times yo), learn how to do all those cool paper folding things (like footballs, balloons, hornets, claws, etc.), get a cell phone and learn how to text quickly and spend a lot of time on it, study pop culture (optional since this is kind of like a stereotype and not all preps and popular people know this stuff), dress cool, have a good smile with good, white teeth, enlarge your pen*s (get it big), Play Madden games, get the latest and most popular tech such as cell phones (like the razor and chocolate), have a very fine car, and last (since it's taking a little while to think of all of this), prioritize, so you can still do good in school.

This is all a waste of time. Just be yourself or try to make new friends. I did halfway through the year. This is the best advice. Some of the stuff listed is good advice, but the chances are that once you graduate, you won't be in contact and/or see any (or most) of them (friends and people from your school) again. Don't worry about stuff like that. Just stay healthy, get good grades, try to have clear skin, basically take good care of yourself. If you want a girlfriend, go out and try to get one. Now.

Just. Be. Yourself.

Answer 2

Let me tell you I am 22 and have been out of Highschool for almost 5 years now... wow I feel old. I have 2 younger sisters, one who is in 8th grade and another who just graduated. I was a cheerleader and got along with a ton of people at school. No I wasnt miss popularity but I had my friends that meant the world to me and then there were those other people that I talked to. I was in the IN crowd and worked so hard to make sure I was in it. 5 years later we have all moved on from High School and none of those people matter to me at all anymore. They stopped mattering nearly a month later. You move on after HS and start a new school and new people and your future. As those other people are doing the same. But it just happens you forget about people. So stop stressing about how much you are liked in school and continue getting those excellent grades. Cuz in the end all that matters is those great friends you had and most importantly that GPA. Join clubs and sports but keep the grades up. It matters when you start looking for colleges cuz thats what they look at is your GPA and your clubs and sports you were in. Hope this helped even a little.

Answer 3

My suggestion is to yourself, but also to just treat people well, be interested in what others have to say, don't hog conversations or brag or talk mostly about yourself. Be the kind of person that others are happy to see and spend time around. It sounds corny, but just being a nice person will get you somewhere!

Answer 4

Im in 9th grade, which is an insanley hard age.

Ive kept with my friends Ive had, and tried to do well in classes, which payed off because I received straight A's, Ive also become popular-er

Just be yourself, keep true to your friends, do well in school, and realize that popularity in highschool dosent matter once you graduater =]

Answer 5

Join clubs? Oh and please don't think all the superficial things you do make you popular. ten years from now you'll think back and think that was really stupid... If people don't like you for yourself (without the tan and everything that comes along with it) it's not worth your time...You're probably very beatiful. Run for something at your school. Homecoming...Prom..

Answer 6

Just be yourself. Don't worry about your looks. Try making people laugh that always makes a person popular.

Answer 7

create your own group and community of friends through a social network like AseanFace where you can post blogs, meet people and friends and invite one or two of your school friends and your friends friend will then get you more notice and be the leader of the pack because you created the group and founded it just by inviting a couple of known- to you as friends or people. i hope this will help wiht your concern.

Answer 8

Get interested in other people, and
be a good listener.
Most people like people who will
listen.

Answer 9

Just do your best and do what makes you happy. Others will see your contentment and seek to learn from you.

Answer 10

i don't think you need to be popular. it all depends in your friends. if your friends like u, then you ARE popular. Just be who u r!!