My guy friend was feeling really bad and was hinting he was going to kill himself. I didnt know what to do and I paniced so I told him that I like him (because I know he likes me back) and that I would go out with him. But I really dont like him at all. I dont know what to do. I dont want to have to go out with him just out of pitty but I dont want him to do something stupid either. Please help!
2007-01-20 14:05:54 · 14 answers · asked by prettyful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You really need to tell his parents because that may not have been the best thing to do on your part. Even though i know you panicked may be you should tell him that you love him as a friend but that's all you want to be and that he is a support to you as well and you know that he has a purpose in life and to kill him self would be such a waste especially since God died for us so that we could live and it would be a sad thing to know that he did all that for us and we can't trust in him enough to know that everything is gonna work out for us if we just believe and trust in him. God Bless!
2007-01-20 14:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you had to do something.. he obviously means something to you... he needs some help, maybe you could guide him in the right direction? Be a friend... tell him must get some help. Chances are he'll find someone else, but for now just be a good friend to him...
2007-01-20 14:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by sloangirl77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've bought yourself time to get him help so contact his closest friends or relatives and have him Baker Acted. this will hold him for 72 hours so that either he can get the help he needs or whoever had him B. A. ed has time to get in front of a judge so that he can be held longer and get the psycological help he needs. you can either do this and sleep tonight knowing he will be alive in the morning or wonder if he is gonna be alive for that date you dont want to be on.
2007-01-20 14:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna have to play this one out for a little while maybe a week or two. Just until he gets back to hmself then you can ease out of the picture.
2007-01-20 14:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got your self in a mess. tell him that your really worried about him an do love him as a friend but thats all and you do like him only as a friend. if that dosent work try dating him for a while and you might like him even more
2007-01-20 14:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by G0ds*Pr0p3rty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really wasnt a very smart move. tell him that you acted irrationally about wanting to be with him and that you would rather just be a good supportive friend for whatever he is going through.
2007-01-20 14:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....he has to learn how to cope with this life...or else hes just going to end up killing himself anyways. Everyone has to carry their weight.
2007-01-20 14:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by knight2234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you steped in this one think about this maybe he wanted you to think he was going to do something so you would go out with him.so you can tell him the truth or see if he likes someone you can fix him up with.good luck
2007-01-20 14:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by bigbubbabub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that in order for you to stop worrying about him, he needs to get professional counselling.
2007-01-20 14:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got yourself blackmailed. It's a simple choice between your life or his life.
2007-01-20 14:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Willem V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋