2007-01-20 14:02:11 · 8 answers · asked by Gautam M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What is not the way you are meant to be? Whether someone is meant to be gay/les, bisexual, transgendered, or transsexual is not the point. The point is that they are who and what they are. Arguing from the viewpoint of what someone is meant to be doesn't accomplish anything.
2007-01-20 14:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why am I a lesbian? Because I love women. Not lust after, love. And technically not "women". I am in a committed relationship, so it would be "woman". I find the intimacy and trust of an equally fulfilling relationship to be well worth the trials of standing up to a world that expects me to be soemthing else.
By whom am I meant to be anything? By god? He doesn't exist. By nature? Nature doesn't care much for most technology, or for our habit of not letting the weak and the frail just die. I don't mind it if nature didn't think things out all the way, but then, nature isn't a person or a god. It's just the facts of life. And the fact is, I'm here. By society? Since when is society right? Most of the time, that I'm seen, society has been terribly wrong. Besides, it's good to challenge tradition... it gets bored and boring if you dont. Not to mention controlling and obsessive... kind of like it is now. *twitch*
2007-01-20 22:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Tain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What isn't the way I was meant to be?
You mean why do I die my hair? Because I don't like having more greys than my older brother.
Do you mean why do I put clothes on my body? Because it's COLD OUTSIDE!
What are you getting at?
Other than those two things, I'm exactly as I as meant to be. I don't lie about who I am, what I do, who I love, I don't lie to my family or anyone I love. What really are you trying to ask?
2007-01-21 03:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Is whacking off to the magazines under your bed (wishful thinking) the way you are supposed to be? Gays and lesbians who accept themselves are most likely being truer to who they are than you will ever be to who you are.
2007-01-20 22:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Skeff 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How the hll would YOU know what is meant to be?
2007-01-20 22:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry , nobodys 100% perfect .
2007-01-20 22:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by 1diputs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nice question asking skills.
2007-01-20 23:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are questioning God?
2007-01-20 22:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋