Ok...The guy I have a huge crush on since September, I feel like i'm annoying him now. I talk to him everyday and we are now aquantinces I believe. I gave him my phone number but he never calls because he says he sees me anyways but I tell him that the quarter is ending and i'm worried that we will never see each other at school again, esspassily that he's a senior and i'm a jr. So I warned him that I would be asking for his phone number sometime last week but never did because of FINALS and how busy me and him both were and everything. So my friend has him in her band class and she goes up to him and she's tells him that I still need his phone number and all he said was OK and then she is like "but don't tell me the phone number now becuase i'll forget it." and it sounded like he didn't care to give it out or anything so he just said OK(from what i've heard.)Do you think i'm bothering him? I mean he's not too socialble, maybe i'm just asking too much. I don't know. confused.
2007-01-20 13:57:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have deep feelings for him and I don't want him to get annoyed. I mean whenever i'm around him the world just stops and I never want that moment to end. And I feel safe and I can truelly be myself around him. Also at times we just laugh like one time he was saying that he had a blonde moment. And he's not even blonde. So I say 'That's very hair racist you know. How could you say something like that?'just messing with him acting like I was a bit offended even though i'm not blonde. lol. But still....am I just asking too much? or overally emotional. I don't know anymore. Please help.
2007-01-20 13:57:55 · update #1
you are darling. your are.
i know it is not easy but ... if he loved you or liked you or appreciated you ... you would have his phone number some time ago !!
sorry to be direct.
take care
2007-01-20 14:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by tomcat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's not very interested right now and that he is kind of getting annoyed... but if you like him this much maybe you should try and give him some more space! You never know, he might change his mind but you cant be bothering him about the phone # (or anything else) that much otherwise he wont want to be around you...
hopefully this helps you some, GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-20 22:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by kristen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem from what you have said that you are being a bit too pushy. If he has never bothered to get your phone number that should tell you something. Perhaps you should let him do the chasing if he is inclined to do so and if he isnt then I would back off.
2007-01-20 22:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by auburn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might just be an awkward guy around girls. maybe he has never been put in this situation before and now he doesnt know what he should do next. you cant pressure him into it, you have to let him take his own time. its annoying, but it has to be done. sometimes people just wont have the same feelings for you as you do for them. just give him time.
2007-01-20 22:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-20 22:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by pepperj1955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean, but if you have to ask the question, you know you're being annoying.
If you want a guy to want you, you have to give him time to want you. You are readily available, men want things that aren't readily available. Give him space and if he comes around, then great. If not, you're wasting your time and you'll end up getting hurt in then end.
2007-01-20 22:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him with a pen and paper in hand and ask for his number. If he refuses or makes an excuse, then you know he isn't too interested. If he gives it to you, then you are still in the game!
2007-01-20 22:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could barely finish reading this. YES. You are crowding him and yes, you are annoying him. Not to mention that this is the second time you have asked this question.
2007-01-20 22:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Artemiseos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a senior and you are a junior he prolly doesnt want to mess with you he will be leaving highschool and you will still be in highschool it will be weird for him to be dating a highschooler even if you arent that far apart but if he really likes you it shouldnt really matter. but still he just doesnt sound interested
2007-01-20 22:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by ~April~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be around you, you would know by now. Move onto another guy that will pay attention to you.
2007-01-20 22:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dana Katherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
tell him
tell him
tell him
what's the worst that can happen? i mean he can't kill you for loving him.
well, maybe he can.
but he shouldn't!
anyway - you have to take the chance and spill your heart to him. you just spilled it to thousands of strangers who don't really get impacted or care. try telling him what you just told us.
2007-01-20 22:09:43 · answer #11 · answered by bl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋