Okay so my friend "A" had a guy "B" come over and he spent the night because he was too drunk to drive home. When "B" woke up he left fast to go home, and "A" noticed the sheets wet in the crotch area. No chance it's just sweat. Anyway, should "A" say anything to "B", leave it alone, stay friends???? Suggestions please..
2007-01-20 13:56:00 · 6 answers · asked by YayaMami87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It happens to a lot more guys than you might think, especially when drunk. That much alcohol puts a lot of pressure on the bladder, and not everyone can hold it all in if they're too tired (or drink) to wake up during the night. I'm sure "B" left without asying anything because he was too scared and embarrassed to know what else to do.
If "A" is capable of being mature about it, she (?) should have a heart-to-heart with "B", let him know that she knows what happened, and (assuming she's not so shallow as to stop being friends w/him because he has a medical condition) tell him she still wants to be friends, but that she'd like to talk with him about what they should do to try to prevent this from happening again. The BEST solution would be for him not to drink so much (that's not good for one's health in a lot of other areas either!), but if he's not willing to do that, she should at LEAST get him a waterproof pad to put on the bed underneath him so that the mattress doesn't get ruined if it happens again. Or, there are adult-sized pull-ups that she could get for him to put on at night if he's going to have a lot to drink, so that they can hold whatever his bladder can't. I'm sure he's extremely embarrassed about it, but if he cares about his friendship with her, then he should be willing to work with her so that at least she's not negatively affected by his problem.
2007-01-23 10:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was piss azz drunk and his bladder released at night. That happened with my ex when I first started dating him and he would come by my place tore up and in the morning after he passed out there was a wet spot where he was sleeping. there was too much alcohol in his system and it had to get out . It is embarrassing but just wash the linens and if he comes back let him know what happens so he don't come back drunk again.
2007-01-20 14:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
individually i do no longer think of weight has something to do with it as i've got had acquaintances who have been purely one hundred sixty piss themselves while inebriated so as that''s no longer the reason. the reason being they are inebriated and in an alcohol stupor and are to out of it to realize they could upward push up and pass and that they pee. possibly they think of they are interior the bathing room? i understand now and back i've got had targets the place I had to pee so undesirable i hit upon a place and enable pass, as a toddler doing this replaced right into a confident indication i replaced into wetting the mattress, now i can do it interior the dream and not moist myself, yet as quickly as I awaken I frequently could pee enormously undesirable. upload alcohol to the mixture and in step with risk i does no longer awaken and someones gettin moist. look in any respect the rock stars who choke on their puke while eating using fact they did no longer have the sence to roll over or awaken.
2016-10-31 21:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gross yeah , just wash the sheets -- and let it go, everyone has peeded the bed one time or another some during potty training others way later lol- he is prob embarassed enough
2007-01-20 16:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by siobhan_michele 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anytihing life's too short!
2007-01-20 14:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a common problem. I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-01-20 14:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋